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A solution for misplaced posts

Short of having a dialogue with Reddit Support Center, these misplaced cross-posts won’t ever stop.
But in the meantime, maybe instead of telling these unknowing OPs that they made a mistake, perhaps we should make sure to downvote all of them every time.

The negative algorithm data might get some attention, ya know?

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u/EBweB76 — 9 days ago

Wedding day coming!

Just 3 more days until my wedding!

We’re getting married at the 10 year anniversary of when we met. I feel certain that my husband who died 11 years ago (leukemia) would approve.

Even though it’s me who delayed accepting the marriage proposal for so long, I’m very excited now!! 🥰

My previous husband gave me a very difficult [unique?] last name, which I’ve shared with my kids all these years.
My new husband has a difficult [unique/bad] last name. I have a decision to make.

At what age did you get married, and… change your last name, or not change your last name?

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u/EBweB76 — 1 month ago

My partner embraces agoraphobia

I’m brand new to the page. Is agoraphobia typically a medical diagnosis, or do we get to claim it without confirmation?

My partner doesn’t feel that he *suffers* with agoraphobia… but prefers to see it as a lifestyle that he chooses (but when he finally does leave the house, he “can’t do” things he’d like to be able to do… and I often enable him… speaking for him, etc).

I could give examples that support “ *fear* of being crowds/public places”, but really, a lot of his condition *looks like* anger with humans. (I believe it’s common knowledge that “fear presents itself as anger”).

Would y’all say that this fits the social definition of agoraphobia? Or is it only valid with a medical diagnosis?

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u/EBweB76 — 2 months ago