
I have an almost two year old neutered male (Smokey) and a four year old spayed female (Biscuit) that I have been working on bonding for a while. They currently free roam in two separate bedrooms in my home but I desperately need one of the bedrooms back so I started really working on bonding them consistently last week. I previously tried the neutral space in a small x-pen and they fought to the point I cried and said I was done trying. Fast forward to the last ten days I decided to let them hang out with my supervision in Biscuits room as she isn’t as territorial as Smokey. It went really well and everyday I extended the amount of time and slowly let them both into the hallway, then to my room and then Smokey’s room. Eventually I took down all the gates just to see how’d it go and so far so good. My female was mounting my male for about a day but they haven’t been fighting at all. They lay in the same space, will eat treats side by side, let me pet them both at the same time and I feel like they “look” for each other. Although I haven’t caught them grooming each other or laying side by side yet. They will sit nose to nose like they are waiting for the other one to groom them but it hasn’t happened yet. Tonight I gave Smokey some oats in his room on this little bench he perches on and Biscuit came over helped herself to his bench and oats. Smokey didn’t seem to mind at all that she was on something that is his or eating a treat I gave to him. At what point do I consider them bonded and entrust them together 24/7 in the same space ?
Adding a picture I took earlier today just to pay my bunny tax.