u/E_mi_manchi_tanto1

Yes, I'm dealing with an album from 1996 with a very low LUFS (around -20), and I'm using a limiter.

Before:
Loudness (LUFS) -19,2 Dinamica (LRA) 9,6 Picco (TP max) 0,0

After:
Loudness (LUFS) -15,1 Dinamica (LRA) 9,0 Picco (TP max) -0,6

update:

Anyway, I made the changes and I'm posting the before and after here:

?ALBUM: ALUNNI DEL SOLE – L’AMORE CHE NON FINIRÀ – 1996

Original :1996

01 - Le Porte Del Sole.flac -22,2LUFS 12,9LRA -6,3TP MAX

02 - Magica Serenata.flac -22,3LUFS 10,7LRA -3,6TP MAX

03 - 'O Tiempo D' 'E Rose.flac -18,6LUFS 5,4LRA -2,0TP MAX

04 - ...Ricordando Il Mio Cielo Di Stelle... Un Ricordo.flac -19,8LUFS 8,7LRA -4,0TP MAX

05 - Concerto.flac -20,7LUFS 11,6LRA -3,9TP MAX

06 - E Mi Manchi Tanto.flac -19,3LUFS 9,7LRA -0,7TP MAX

07 - Un'Altra Poesia.flac -20,5LUFS 9,2LRA -4,6TP MAX

08 - Jenny.flac -17,2LUFS 6,2LRA -2,8TP MAX

09 - 'A Canzuncella.flac -19,8LUFS 4,4LRA -3,9TP MAX

10 - L' Aquilone.flac -21,9LUFS 5,3LRA -5,6TP MAX

11 - Pagliaccio.flac -20,3LUFS 6,0LRA -3,4TP MAX

12 - Isa... Isabella.flac -20,3LUFS 7,2LRA -3,9TP MAX

13 - Ombre Di Luci.flac -19,2LUFS 9,7LRA -3,7TP MAX

14 - Liu'.flac -20,2LUFS 5,7LRA -1,1TP MAX

15 - Tarante'.flac -19,3LUFS 7,3LRA -3,7TP MAX falso 16 - Io Canto... L'amore Che Non Finira'....flac -21,1LUFS 14,2LRA -0,8TP MAX

remastering:

01 - Le Porte Del Sole.flac -15,3 LUFS 12,8 LRA -1,0 TP max

02 - Magica Serenata.flac -15,4 LUFS 10,4 LRA -0,9 TP max

03 - 'O Tiempo D' 'E Rose.flac -14,6 LUFS 5,3 LRA -0,7 TP max

04 - ...Ricordando Il Mio Cielo Di Stelle... Un Ricordo.flac -14,6 LUFS 8,6 LRA -0,9 TP max

05 - Concerto.flac -14,9 LUFS 11,3 LRA -0,9 TP max

06 - E Mi Manchi Tanto.flac -15,0 LUFS 9,3 LRA -0,3 TP max

07 - Un'Altra Poesia.flac -14,8 LUFS 9,2 LRA -0,9 TP max

08 - Jenny.flac -14,3 LUFS 6,1 LRA -1,2 TP max

09 - 'A Canzuncella.flac -14,6 LUFS 4,3 LRA -0,7 TP max

10 - L' Aquilone.flac -14,8 LUFS 5,3 LRA -0,9 TP max

11 - Pagliaccio.flac -14,9 LUFS 5,8 LRA -0,8 TP max

12 - Isa... Isabella.flac -14,8 LUFS 7,1 LRA -1,0 TP max

13 - Ombre Di Luci.flac -14,6 LUFS 9,6 LRA -1,0 TP max

14 - Liu'.flac -14,9 LUFS 5,6 LRA -0,2 TP max

15 - Tarante'.flac -14,5 LUFS 7,2 LRA -1,0 TP max

16 - Io Canto... L'amore Che Non Finira'....flac -16,1 LUFS 13,4 LRA -0,9 TP max

I am a man of almost 27 years old and in my entire life I have managed to have only one true friendship with a man. For the rest, I've always only had female friends.

My problem is that I genuinely don't know what to talk about with men, as I often talk about love, poetry, and feelings, but I feel like I can't do it with them. Please don't take what I say as an insult, but conversations generally seem more superficial to me.

What am I doing wrong?

So, I decided to take a test to see if the girl I'm dating will contact me of her own accord. I'm always the first to chat her.

I'm so scared because if she didn't write to me, my heart would break .

I met her in 2024 because at the time I was trying to date one of her friends, but when I saw her I fell in love the very first moment I saw her.

In 2025 we tried to date, we were often arguing because I think we were still not ready.

But this year I decided to try again, because I really love her.

Well, she is ambiguos, because while she told me she wants to meet me in person this week, on the other hand she never chats me first. So in my mind I think, that's not fair.

Do you think my test is necessary?