Fairly regularly a post which would fit right in here gets posted in r/PCC. Despite the acronym matching for pistol caliber carbines, that is a community college subreddit. Just posting in the event that it helps anyone from making the mistake although it's an obviously understandable and no harm caused mistake.
Remembered I had some pins and such in my room. Got them some time ago from someone who grew up during that time, not sure if related. Just curious towards any history of them, thought might be an appropriate place to ask. Thanks if so.
(Ignore Islamic/Muslim thing in the corner.)
I know to some such things don't matter nor do I insist that they should, but for me they are extremely interesting.
I was wondering if anyone knows of any paper or research on this sort of thing. While I've only experienced attraction to this one person and it makes sense especially as a female to be more sexually selective (due to burden of reproduction) based on other traits, it seems kind of counterintuitive to be this sexually selective to a degree where reproductive chances are severely diminished.
For instance, if I lose this partner, it may be that I never reproduce (even within this given societal factors to be fair but that is a social barrier rather than anything innate/instinctual) which doesn't seem beneficial to the whole biological imperatives that seem to guide essentially every animal including human (although humans are subject to more complex thinking, at least as we know, which makes these less powerful given ability to make more conscious choices). Is it more that if hereditary that enough reproductions have happened to not kick it out over time or maybe it's more of a newer development such that it hasn't had its time to sort it out? Of course, historically and presently, unfortunately a lot of relationships are not driven by personal attraction and desire which I suppose would override this. Whether the individual is particularly inclined to it, they are socially expected and make do. Freedom of choice which is a (hopefully continually) growing factor may make this more clear.
Some thoughts:
1). Demisexual individual has "significantly inferior mate value" and to compensate must be extremely sexually selective to compensate - which seems very poor functionality since how would this work out if they are a "bad" choice and with an extremely limited pool of potential partners?
2). Demisexual individual has "significantly superior mate value" and therefore is a lot more picky to ensure their genetics aren't "wasted"
Another interesting thing is mate guarding behaviors may be more prevalent in those who feel there are less options. I wonder if this coincides here given options are indeed quite limited.
Anyway, I know some people don't like this kind of view when thinking about their sexuality so please disregard and move on if so. Unfortunately, this way of being is so unknown that I can't really bring it up in forums which are more topical to sexuality through this kind of view. Human sexuality is a strong interest of mine and since I appear to be this way, it also makes me curious as to its relation to me. I mean it not to make anyone upset or invalidate anything.
Particularly when missing them and being reunited or during the ending part of intimacy (climax). By nuzzling I sort of mean "rubbing with your head, particularly your cheek/side of your face, against their body". It's involuntary to me at times and makes me feel like some part of my brain is still some sort of primitive animal thing. It's not like I'm really getting any kind of scent marker on them or anything. Anyone else experience this/or suggest why? My best guess is since it's also accompanied by a very strong desire to just be very close to them in every other way, this follows suit. Hugging and everything else is accompanied but that makes sense to be inclined towards and start to do given how normal it is. This, I don't know if I've seen anyone else do (though I don't tend to observe couples).
Despite how the title sounds, it doesn't have to be sexual and I'd prefer it not (to an egregious/focal point, moderation is fine) especially in the images category (not looking for pornography). Text posts are fine. Probably of no interest to start detailing why, but I'd love to see it! For scale of reference, you'll see in like r/ gay or r/ actualesbians and they'll often post attraction or "my partner did something cute!" posts and I'd like to see that from women oriented towards men. I know r/ bisexual sometimes has those though it's not quite the same. Appreciate it if any ideas.