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Lip blushing

Hi guys does lip blushing treatments fall under getting a tattoo so it would be impermissible?

I want to do lip blushing to get rid of my darkened lips but I was wondering if that’s actually equivalent to getting tattoo

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u/Early_Stranger- — 2 days ago

Mentally unstable husband

My husband is some mentally unstable person with anger weird anger issues

Today he came from work and he was messaging his employer something in a language he doesn’t know by good translation and I told him that “I have told you google is not accurate, it’s wrong!” He told me then you write it, since such a professor you are.

Once the employer responded by voice message, he asked me what’s he saying and I was responding back to him while looking at my phone, and he aggressively told our son to go away and then quite literally shouted what’s he saying and I frowned at him and asked him what’s gotten into you, what’s this tone?
He asked a couple of times in similar manner and I responded back questioning why is he using this tone? Then he got up and started breaking things.

This is his usual behaviour if our disagreement escalates.

I am a diagnosed ADHD, and him having these aggressive bursts makes me realise I don’t want anymore kids, it’s beyond something I can handle. We have two kids, a preschooler and toddler.
The contraceptives we use is condom but of course it’s not 100% effective which is my fear and I cannot use other contraceptives to mess up with my hormones because I already have a lot to deal with being an ADHD person.

My question is, if against all my prayers, I end up getting pregnant ever, do I have a valid reason in such situation to abort the pregnancy because I’m mentally not in a position to handle responsibility of another child while having a mentally unstable spouse?

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u/Early_Stranger- — 9 days ago

ADHD mom

My husband is some mentally unstable person with weird anger issues

It’s his usual behaviour if our disagreements escalate.

I am a diagnosed ADHD, and him having these aggressive bursts makes me realise I don’t want anymore kids, it’s beyond something I can handle. We have two kids, a preschooler and toddler.
The contraceptives we use is condom but of course it’s not 100% effective which is my fear and I cannot use other contraceptives to mess up with my hormones because I already have a lot to deal with being an ADHD person.

My question is, if against all my prayers, I end up getting pregnant ever, do I have a valid reason in such situation to abort the pregnancy because I’m mentally not in a position to handle responsibility of another child while having a mentally unstable spouse?

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u/Early_Stranger- — 10 days ago

I have mentally unstable husband

My husband is some mentally unstable person with anger weird anger issues

Today he came from work and he was messaging his employer something in a language he doesn’t know by good translation and I told him that “I have told you google is not accurate, it’s wrong!” He told me then you write it, since such a professor you are.

Once the employer responded by voice message, he asked me what’s he saying and I was responding back to him while looking at my phone, and he aggressively told our son to go away and then quite literally shouted what’s he saying and I frowned at him and asked him what’s gotten into you, what’s this tone?
He asked a couple of times in similar manner and I responded back questioning why is he using this tone? Then he got up and started breaking things.

This is his usual behaviour if our disagreement escalates.

I am a diagnosed ADHD, and him having these aggressive bursts makes me realise I don’t want anymore kids, it’s beyond something I can handle. We have two kids, a preschooler and toddler.
The contraceptives we use is condom but of course it’s not 100% effective which is my fear and I cannot use other contraceptives to mess up with my hormones because I already have a lot to deal with being an ADHD person.

My question is, if against all my prayers, I end up getting pregnant ever, do I have a valid reason in such situation to abort the pregnancy because I’m mentally not in a position to handle responsibility of another child while having a mentally unstable spouse?

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u/Early_Stranger- — 10 days ago