Can Sx8 and VELF correlate?

hello I am sx/sp 854.

But I dont really feel like I have high Physics at all, I just dont care abt F genuienly, and honestly just neglect it almost always and dont rlly feel bothered by such thing at all

And lowk high E, because I enjoy talking to people about E thing Emotions yes, I enjoy thinking about it myself and just doing shit w it, and I can pretend really easily when it comes w E and its just not something id but in 3rd placement. Maybe 4th would work but then F being in 2nd still doesnt really feel like me.

so I'd see myself as a VELF. but since e8's correlate with a high F just idk

I also really relate to many descriptions of VELF as I read lots of them

And also 3L feels good bc I def kinda care about logic, im not super sensitive, but its def something that can def offend me unlike the rest 3.

This either somehow correlates or I might not be a VELF OR a core Sx8.

Though yes I am still 100% sure I am a Sx8, yes I read the books dont attack me. Though im open if yall suggest something else instead

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u/East_Crab7806 — 13 days ago

Can I be VELF as a Sx8?

hello I am sx/sp 854.

But I dont really feel like I have high Physics at all, I either dont care about it or maybe mildly insecure bc of the looks part but thats it. idc abt F genuienly.

And lowk high E, because I enjoy talking to people about E thing Emotions yes, I enjoy thinking about it myself and just doing shit w it, and I can pretend really easily when it comes w E and its just not something id but in 3rd placement. Maybe 4th would work but then F being in 2nd still doesnt really feel like me bc bro. I do not care about that F one bit honestly

so I'd see myself as a VELF. but since e8's correlate with a high F just idk

I also really relate to certain descriptions of VELF, especially the manipulating part... Bc of that 2E

And also 3L feels good bc I def kinda care about logic, im not super sensitive, but its def something that can def offend me unlike the rest 3.

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u/East_Crab7806 — 13 days ago
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Can I be VELF as a Sx8?

hello I am sx/sp 854.

But I dont really feel like I have high Physics at all, I either dont care about it or maybe mildly insecure bc of the looks part but thats it. idc abt F genuienly.

And lowk high E, because I enjoy talking to people about E thing Emotions yes, I enjoy thinking about it myself and just doing shit w it, and I can pretend really easily when it comes w E and its just not something id but in 3rd placement. Maybe 4th would work but then F being in 2nd still doesnt really feel like me bc bro. I do not care about that F one bit honestly

so I'd see myself as a VELF. but since e8's correlate with a high F just idk

I also really relate to certain descriptions of VELF, especially the manipulating part... Bc of that 2E

And also 3L feels good bc I def kinda care about logic, im not super sensitive, but its def something that can def offend me unlike the rest 3.

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u/East_Crab7806 — 13 days ago

Psychosophy

hello my friend is so/sp 6w5 100% with huge wing and a 639 but they can't figure out their fuckass psychosophy bc they feel like lfev

they like processive physics so def not somethin like 4F

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u/East_Crab7806 — 15 days ago
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Psychosophy

hello my friend is so/sp 6w5 100% with hugge active wing and a 639 but they can't figure out their fuckass psychosophy bc they feel like LFEV

4F doesnt make much sense they feel like processive physics

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u/East_Crab7806 — 15 days ago
▲ 5 r/EnneagramTypeMe+1 crossposts

Struggling to relate to any ennegram properly

I've genuinely been struggling to type myself, and at this point I don't even know what my type is anymore. The only thing that's stayed relatively consistent is core 8, but even now I'm starting to doubt whether I'm actually an 8.

For my head type, I've mainly been stuck between E7 and E5.

I've considered E7 because I relate to a lot of it. The problem is that I don't relate to escapism at all. I seek stimulation, and I deal with chronic boredom, but the reasons behind my boredom feel completely different from the way E7s usually describe it.

I've also considered E5 because some parts fit me really well. However, I'm not someone who withdraws or needs a lot of alone time. I can be alone just fine, but if it were my favorite person, I'd have absolutely no problem spending as much time with them as possible. On the other hand, if it's someone I don't really care about, I'll obviously get drained like anyone else.

The heart triad is also a mess because I barely relate to any of it. Right now, though, I'm pretty confident that I'm an E2. Even then, I don't really relate to the stereotypical "helper" aspect of E2. What I do relate to is the fear of not being important enough or not being someone's chosen person. I just don't cope with that by helping people—I express it in different ways.

As for the gut triad, I've always been pretty confident that I'm an E8. However, a friend has suggested E9, mainly because of sx9s and how adaptable they can be. I do relate to being adaptable, but I haven't really looked into E9 or sx9 yet. I'll probably read more about them later, although I honestly don't feel like they'll fit me.

The main thing that makes me question E8 is how I deal with anger in one specific situation.

Most of the time, I'm pretty expressive when I'm angry, especially if it's directed at strangers or people I don't care about.

But when it comes to my favorite person—or really anyone I genuinely care about—I become passive-aggressive instead. I'll intentionally act dry, distant, or a bit annoying because I want them to notice that something's wrong and ask me about it. I don't feel comfortable bringing it up directly because I'm ashamed of being vulnerable, and I also want to see if they care enough to notice something is off. Once they ask, I almost never have a problem explaining what's bothering me.

I also don't suppress my anger for long periods of time. If anything, I get even more upset if they don't notice my passive-aggressive behavior, so I make it more and more obvious until I eventually tell them what's wrong anyway. By that point, though, I'm genuinely really angry. It's not that I want to hide my feelings—I actually want to talk about them. I'm just too uncomfortable being direct right away, so I end up indirectly expressing it instead.

So I guess I'm mainly looking for help with my core type and my head type. I'm fairly confident about my heart type at this point, so that's the part I'm least concerned about.

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u/East_Crab7806 — 19 days ago

VELF and ennegram

I’m a VELF, and I’m 100% sure about that. I love figuring people out, and it’s one of the main ways I keep myself from getting bored around people. (Not empathetic VELF type but I rlly do relate to VELF's descriptions and etc)

But when it comes to Enneagram, I used to think I was a core sx8 until I realized I’m genuinely an sx7 instead because it fits me much better. I also tend to be logical rational not just pure 100% impulse. The problem is that sx7 doesn’t correlate with 1V, so now idfk what I am. And even if I went back to sx8, my 4F doesn’t correlate with that either.

(I do not relate to heart triad one bit and struggled to pick something out when I was doing my tritypes, so dont say im E2. My instinctual stack is sx/sp)

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u/East_Crab7806 — 25 days ago

Sx7 and VELF

I’m a VELF, and I’m 100% sure about that. I love figuring people out, and it’s one of the main ways I keep myself from getting bored around people. (Not empathetic VELF type but I rlly do relate to VELF's descriptions and etc)

But when it comes to Enneagram, I used to think I was a core sx8 until I realized I’m genuinely an sx7 instead because it fits me much better. I also tend to be logical rational not just pure 100% impulse. The problem is that sx7 doesn’t correlate with 1V, so now idfk what I am. And even if I went back to sx8, my 4F doesn’t correlate with that either.

(I do not relate to heart triad one bit and struggled to pick something out when I was doing my tritypes, so dont say im E2.)

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u/East_Crab7806 — 25 days ago
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What am I

I’m a VELF, and I’m 100% sure about that. I love figuring people out, and it’s one of the main ways I keep myself from getting bored around people. (Not empathetic VELF type but I rlly do relate to VELF's descriptions and etc)

But when it comes to Enneagram, I used to think I was a core sx8 until I realized I’m genuinely an sx7 instead because it fits me much better. I also tend to be logical rational not just pure 100% impulse. The problem is that sx7 doesn’t correlate with 1V, so now idfk what I am. And even if I went back to sx8, my 4F doesn’t correlate with that either.

(I do not relate to heart triad one bit and struggled to pick something out when I was doing my tritypes, so dont say im E2.)

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u/East_Crab7806 — 25 days ago