u/Eastern-Ad7477

There’s a lot to the story… the LTDR;

My husband of three years moved out 19 weeks ago and seven weeks ago, said (within a 20 minute phone call)… “I want this marriage to work…” “yes, we’re getting a divorce….” “Let me think about it. If you keep asking, you might not get the answer you want to hear.” I’ve gone no contact with him and haven’t heard from him since. There’s no evidence to support he’s filed papers or retained an attorney.

I’m going to continue no contact and make him break it, but I’m still confused, hurt, angry, anxious…. All of the negative emotions.

I don’t intend to initiate the divorce myself. I’m willing to work through things.

Has anyone experienced this? When do they usually break contact? Help…

There’s a lot to the story… the LTDR;

My husband of three years moved out 19 weeks ago and seven weeks ago, said (within a 20 minute phone call)… “I want this marriage to work…” “yes, we’re getting a divorce….” “Let me think about it. If you keep asking, you might not get the answer you want to hear.” I’ve gone no contact with him and haven’t heard from him since. There’s no evidence to support he’s filed papers or retained an attorney.

I’m going to continue no contact and make him break it, but I’m still confused, hurt, angry, anxious…. All of the negative emotions.

I don’t intend to initiate the divorce myself. I’m willing to work through things.

Has anyone experienced this? When do they usually break contact? Help…

There’s a lot to the story… the LTDR;

My husband of three years moved out 19 weeks ago and seven weeks ago, said (within a 20 minute phone call)… “I want this marriage to work…” “yes, we’re getting a divorce….” “Let me think about it. If you keep asking, you might not get the answer you want to hear.” I’ve gone no contact with him and haven’t heard from him since. There’s no evidence to support he’s filed papers or retained an attorney.

I’m going to continue no contact and make him break it, but I’m still confused, hurt, angry, anxious…. All of the negative emotions.

I don’t intend to initiate the divorce myself. I’m willing to work through things.

Has anyone experienced this? When do they usually break contact? Help…