u/Eastern-Dream-1092

I miss being skinny and wearing tank tops with a built in bra. 🤣 Are there any for plus/larger cups? I have been losing weight and my current measurements have me at a 38G/H US; 38F/FF UK. For fit purposes, I’ve tried the Panache Envy which didn’t fit well (gore dug in a lot) and the Elomi Matilda which also digs at the top of the gore but not as much (oddly their bikini top Plain Sailing fits great!). I tried the Glamorise Lace Comfort Wonderwire (losing weight I wanted cheaper bras because I’ve already dropped two band sizes), and it is a PERFECT fit. I could sleep in this bra. I would like a tank that has reasonable support. I also need a sports bra. I’ve been wearing the Shefit which is okay for compression and cute when you can see it, but as I’ve lost weight I can’t get the underband to fit without compressing my boobs so much they hurt. It also gapes now on the sides as I’ve lost weight. I thought the adjustable fit would preclude that, but it didn’t. Thanks for your advice! Looking for Prime Day deals! (Glamorise is 44% off some styles!)

My measurements:
Under 40
Under snug 39.25
Under tight 37.25
Bust standing 44.5
Leaning 47
Lying 48

I am so frustrated. I have been steadily losing weight for 11 months, having dropped from 267 to (I thought) 174. I think I look…. pretty good? I don’t know, I definitely have body dysmorphia. Anyway, I ordered the Wyze Scale X because my current scale has been acting a “little“ wacky, giving me different readings back to back, and the new scale said I weighed 209, a 35 lb. difference from where I thought I was. I thought my old scale might be off by like 5#.

I am going to weigh myself at the gym tomorrow, but based on my measurements, honestly the Wyze is probably more accurate than my old one.

I don’t know at what point my scale started to be off, and my weight loss has seemed “too fast” in recent weeks. When I started this, my scale clocked the same number as the doctor’s office, so I have continued using the same scale daily for the last almost-year. I also think I carry my weight “well” and all of my clothes have been donated, and I’m wearing straight sizes again, mostly XL or XXL/16/18. I had been frustrated with my waist measurement, which honestly makes sense now!

But man, what a fucking punch in the gut. Can I hope for a stomach virus or something? I’m ready to just try a GLP-1 at this point.

I have lost 75 lbs. and am struggling to find clothes that fit. When I last weighed this much, prekids, I was probably a size 14 I still cannot fit into most straight sizes except Old Navy tops, which are fitting in an XL (hello size inflation lol). I am struggling to find, in particular, shorts, both athletic and smart casual. I have long legs, a short torso, and a short hip to waist distance. I look better with shorter shorts, probably no more than a 4-5” inseam, but I am mid-40s and need my bootie covered. Longer Bermuda or board style don’t look good on me. I would be okay with skorts or shorts with the under short. I still have an apron belly, but it’s not as pronounced as before, so the rise in plus size shorts are much too long or I have to pull them up to my bra line which is uncomfortable. My butt is depressingly flat so jeans with higher pockets look more flattering.

I am 5’7”, weigh 190#, waist is a stubborn 46”, LB 18W does not fit well anymore (they don’t carry enough smaller sizes in store to bother trying).

I know this sub is for plus sized so I feel like this crew would recognize the struggle. I am going on vacation in 3 weeks. Please help! In the past I’ve ordered from Lands End and LL Bean but see literally nothing that looks worth trying. I want to feel great having lost so much weight and am finding it’s still impossible to find decent clothes!