u/Eastern_Choice_4118

I matched with this girl on Bumble just after Christmas. We started messaging and straight away we clicked/vibed and we'd often be messaging each other for hours a day late into the night. Pretty much since the first day we matched we've messaged every day and feel like we've become close.

We've had dates that have all gone well, I've met her friends, went and took part in a charity event her sister was organising, had days out together and last weekend we had a weekend away.

She is due to go on a holiday to Jamaica with a couple of her friends next week so when we got back from our weekend trip, I thought it was a good time to bring up how we were feeling with each other and sort of ask her if she considering ourselves in a relationship now.

She told me she really liked what we have together and she isn't looking to date anyone else apart from me. She said didn't want to label us at the moment because she just likes going with the flow and we should talk and figure it out more after the holiday.

Inititally, I was a little disappointed because I thought she would say that she sees as a couple and we'd be come "official" but I thought what she said was fair and understood what she was saying so I just left it.

But, over the last few days, I've thought more and more about what she said and i'm now thinking that she said what she said so she could keep her options open in terms of meeting guys on her holiday and hooking up with them without feeling she was being unfaithful or disloyal in anyway. The way she said about not looking to date anyone else but didn't say hookup/sleep with anyone else.

I feel like maybe I'm overthinking about it but also feel like we've been acting like boyfriend/girlfriend for a couple of months so I didn't fully understand the hesitancy from her.

Do you think I'm reading too much into it or am I fair in being a bit confused?

I've had problems repeatedly with being suspended and asked to verify my age. I'm 21 and do have a young face, asked for ID in bars, buying vapes etc but would think that it would be able to be sorted somehow but it's a consistent issue.

I've done several verification checks which seem to sort the problem but then my account gets suspended the next day again.

Has anyone had similar issues and is there an official to verify your age?

I've only been creating content for a little while, its been a good start but it has felt like a lot of work but for average reward.

I have had a lot of requests from men about being paypigs and findom type things. I've never really marketed myself in that area but still have had guys ask. I've taken a few guys on board and this has been my main earner for the last couple of months and my workload has been much less too.

Have I just struck lucky with the subs I've got or is it the way to get big money going forward and market myself that way?

This is more of just a rant than anything but I can't believe how any pictures I use that either show a bit of cleavage or even a top that shows the outline of my chest is the only thing a guy can talk about.

I have changed pictures but I have a couple still that are of me from events where I dressed up and liked how I looked, they arent excessively revealing at all but still guys struggle not to turn the convo in to my chest. I do have breast implants so I do have a big chest but I don't flaunt them on my profile or try to give that impression.

Are guys just super horny on here (I haven't used a dating app before) or am I just attracting the worst of them?