neeeed serious advice rn
So Long story short me and my first love tried a HJ around 2 years ago and my peice just didn’t rise and failed on me and it was so so embarassing like now everytime her hand goes near there it litro shrivels up no matter how hard it was before from kissing or anything i have noooo clue how to stop this like how am i still being effected 2 years later and it sucks cause we are better now and itd be great if we could experience sum like that together. i also take shilajit most days and when i was in the moment i did try some breathing techniques such as an extra inhale at the end of a large inhale but that didnt really do anything. she kinda feels like it’s her and it sucks so i really want to show here its not. i keep getting told to relax but its easier said than done but will that work or will i need therapy?