u/Educational_Turn6817

Anyone here’s going through a divorce alone? All my family and friends are in my home state wife field for divorce and wants to stay where we’re at. We have been here for 2 year we have a little girl together. She said I can have 50/50 so every other week. But like on holidays it’s just her and I sometimes, wife doesn’t do Co-parenting like holidays together etc. I don’t have the mental capacity to even try and making new friends or even talking to any girls. My options are stay here get 50/50 be alone. Do things alone with my daughter or go back home where I would get her Durring the summer, every birthday, alternate major holidays.

So I’m in a tough tough tough spot!!!! Wife and I moved away from all family and friends to a new state. We moved so she can work for MY cousin, been here for about 2.5 years now. Wife emotionally cheated on me twice MY Cousin sided with her and decided to keep her employed because she benefits from my wife. Pays my wife shit doing the job of 3 people. My question is here since MY cousin and her family never wants to talk to me again, we’re getting a divorce, and have a 3 year old little girl. I want to move back wife wants to stay here. Would you move back to immediate family and friends and get your daughter for summer and holidays and her birthday since that’s where my daughters grandma, grandpa, aunts, uncles, cousins etc.. are? Or would you stay here and do 50/50 but like on holidays, birthdays etc it’s just me and my daughter? If I stay she experiences things just her and I and I see her more. If I go she gets to actually know her deep roots and her real family

We have a rule 11 agreement. Something came up we both agreed to change it, and we’ve been doing the new rule 11 for 4 months now. We have a 3 year old who has adapted to it. The new arrangement was never filed even though my attorney knew about it. She mentioned changing it the other day I told her we had An agreement and that our daughter is use to it. She said get it amended and in writing so I contacted my lawyer again he contacted hers and now she said she didn’t say yes or no. The old rule 11 interfers with my work schedule. Is there anything I can do

What can I say to my wife during divorce and custody battle? We are cordial and share updates about our daughter (3). But I want to fight for our marriage and our family but the support group she has hates me. I wrote her a letter and that’s all I have done because I’m scared what can be used against me in anyway

How many chances do you think husband/wife deserve?. If there was no abuse, no verbal abuse, no drugs, no cheating. Just lack of communications and taking accountability? I believe everyone deserves a second chance

When a wife leaves and depends on someone that is her boss, her landlord, her child care, and also paying attorney fees.