u/Effective_Sail_4291

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Please help, not sure what to do

Okay so I think I’m going crazy.

I’ve been seeing this guy since November. Weekends spent together. I’ve met his son. He’s met my daughter. He always goes days without messaging me and I know I shouldn’t deal with it but I do. Anyway. That happened again. I called him Friday. He called me back. Said he let me know the answer to a question shortly and hung up. I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve texted, called, snapped, left voicemails. If he’s ghosting me fine whatever. But!-

  1. ⁠Idk what I did. We were fine. He was overwhelmed with work and his son and stuff but I didn’t do anything.
  2. ⁠I need to get my stuff back from his place if he’s done with me.
  3. ⁠I think I left medication I need there but he won’t answer me to tell me if it’s there or not.

Do I just show up and grab my stuff? All calls ring at least 5 or 6 times before voicemail so they don’t seem to be declined. My messages say delivered. My snap says delivered. He hasn’t posted on any social media for days that I can see.

He has Us Cellular and it’s probably switching to TMobile but if that’s the issue I don’t think it’d ring through.

What do I do

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u/Effective_Sail_4291 — 1 day ago
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What do I do?

Okay so I think I’m going crazy.

I’ve been seeing this guy since November. Weekends spent together. I’ve met his son. He’s met my daughter. He always goes days without messaging me and I know I shouldn’t deal with it but I do. Anyway. That happened again. I called him Friday. He called me back. Said he let me know the answer to a question shortly and hung up. I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve texted, called, snapped, left voicemails. If he’s ghosting me fine whatever. But!-

  1. Idk what I did. We were fine. He was overwhelmed with work and his son and stuff but I didn’t do anything.
  2. I need to get my stuff back from his place if he’s done with me.
  3. I think I left medication I need there but he won’t answer me to tell me if it’s there or not.

Do I just show up and grab my stuff? All calls ring at least 5 or 6 times before voicemail so they don’t seem to be declined. My messages say delivered. My snap says delivered. He hasn’t posted on any social media for days that I can see.

He has Us Cellular and it’s probably switching to TMobile but if that’s the issue I don’t think it’d ring through.

What do I do?

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u/Effective_Sail_4291 — 1 day ago