u/EfficienSee

Edit: Don’t worry, it’s nothing illegal.

So I (26m) in college frequented online chat sites. The ones where two people chat or jerk off together. There, I discovered penis humiliation and cuckolding. It felt great to be able to embrace being on the small side for once. It’s worth noting that I have a small penis but prefer to top. However, it slowly became basically the only thing that gets me off.

Two years ago, I met my current boyfriend. He (25m) is the love of my life, and our relationship is incredibly healthy. He is a full bottom, hot as fuck, and I do feel like I satisfy him. However, I find myself fantasizing about cuckolding and humiliation almost every time we’re intimate. He knows I enjoy cuckolding, and we have nearly experimented with inviting another top while I watch. We just haven’t found anyone that we both found attractive yet. So, I haven’t really been able to satisfy my urges much. Plus, there is not much gay porn featuring cuckolding.
The main caveat is that I haven’t told him I enjoy it. Even with cucking, I presented it more as being into a threesome than enjoying the humiliation aspect of it. He is open to exploring, but I feel that admitting I enjoy humiliation as a top would be too much. I can’t help feeling that my fetish diminishes our intimacy, and it feels dishonest or at least limiting. If I came out about enjoying humiliation, I fear that it would change our dynamic.

Bottoms, would this be an instant turn off for you? I’m wondering if other Redditors have experience overcoming a fetish as well as what others’ opinions are.

So I (26M - Top) and my boyfriend (25M - bottom) are going through a dry spell sexually after two and a half years of being together.

We moved in together in October and have steadily decreased the amount of anal sex we have. When we got together, we both were openly into anal sex and also said we enjoyed our positions of top and bottom exclusively. But since we moved in together, my boyfriend initiates anal sex less and less. Now, he hasn’t initiated it since I can remember. He does initiate oral and other kinds of sex, but never anal. I have more and more frequently declined oral sex as it just doesn’t interest me much in general. He has acknowledged my lack of interest and I told him it’s just hard for me to get off that way.

For many reasons, I do not want to beg and don’t want it to be a one-sided thing. Thus, we just end up not having sex or any kind of intimacy. It’s worth mentioning I haven’t directly addressed it with him, and I would never want to make him feel pressure to do so. I fully understand that bottoming is challenging and requires a lot more than topping. Where I do get a bit frustrated/confused is the steady decline in his interest to do so and the change from how he was when we got together.

I guess im asking what parts I’m valid on and where i need to compromise and/or communicate with him. Or maybe i just needed to rant… either way, advice is welcome.

I exclusively swing trade with MU. I love that it:
Is volatile but feels safe as it Is likely to (eventually) always increase due to the company’s huge profits and being sold out until 2027. I haven’t lost more than $60 or so on a trade, but I make a steady $300 a week from it.

My question is, is it limiting me to only use one ticker? If it’s down for a week, I’m basically just waiting for it to go up to start making money again. Are there any other stocks with such explosive growth that also feels undervalued? While I can also feel comfortable knowing the company itself is responsible and legitimate?

I’m new to options and tried this trade for fun:
Underlying: AT&T (T)
Strike: $26
Expiration: July 17, 2026
Entry Date: May 27, 2026
Entry Price: $0.57 ($57 total)
Current Option Price: ~$0.08
Current P/L: -$48.66 (-85.88%)
Days Until Expiration: ~38
When I entered the trade, T was around $25.20. The stock has since fallen to around the mid-$24 range.

What I’m struggling to understand is why the option lost nearly 86% of its value when the stock itself only moved down 1%. I understand the concept of time decay (I think?), but the magnitude of the loss surprised me and it lost nearly all of its value in a few days.

What would have needed to happen for this trade to be successful? Was the biggest mistake the strike selection, expiration, stock choice, or all of the above?
And at this point, what would you do with this god awful trade lol?