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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 1 day ago
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David Nordahl Paintings Commissioned by MJ

Some paintings MJ commissioned from artist David Nordahl. Some of these were displayed in his home (see the last slide for one of them).

I think these paintings really demonstrate the intensity of his idealization and obsession with children and childhood. He is also always portrayed as a god-like figure, a leader, someone that the children look up to.

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 1 day ago

Why did he seem more interested in women as a child than as an adult?

This video surprised me, it's sounds like he liked women when he was younger. I don't understand how he changed so much as an adult, possibly becoming a gay pedophile.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 4 days ago

This will always be tragic

Personally, I believe that Michael was indeed a pedophile and he deserved to be arrested. But every time I see his mugshot it depresses me. I don't understand how a person can hate themself this much. He looks like an uncanny mannequin. And his eyes are so unsettling, he used to have such beautiful big brown eyes.

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 5 days ago

Was Katherine a good mother?

Katherine was definitely a better parent than Joseph and loved her kids but she was not a good mother. She stood by and allowed her children to be physically abused their entire childhood and allegedly allowed her daughters to be SA'd.

I want add that isn't it strange that they call her "mother"? I've only ever seen people who dislike their mom refer to them as that. It's cold and distant.

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 6 days ago

Do you believe Michael sold his soul for fame?

I mean this figuratively, but during the peak of Thriller he wrote this bizarre manifesto about reinventing himself. He declared that he was going to become a "new Michael," remain shrouded in secrecy, and transform into a "strange beauty." His goal was to unite all races, become a hero to little white children, and make them love him.

He actually followed through with much of it. He left the old Michael behind, dramatically changed his appearance, distanced himself from his family, and deliberately spread bizarre rumors about himself. In a sense, he achieved exactly what he wanted—he became one of, if not the, most famous celebrities in history.

The question is whether it was worth it. He became a desolate drug addict and alcoholic. By the time he died, much of the public viewed him as a joke rather than the untouchable superstar he once was. He also kept his family at a distance, perhaps because he was ashamed of what he had become.

From Thriller onward, it seemed the only things that truly brought him happiness were performing and touching children.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 6 days ago

New Subreddit r/PsychologyofMJ

I've noticed that while this subreddit is primarily focused on the victims, a lot of people are also interested in discussing Michael Jackson's psychology and trying to understand what drove his behavior.

With that in mind, I created r/PsychologyofMJ. The subreddit is dedicated to examining Michael Jackson's personality, behavior, motivations, relationships, and the psychological factors that may have shaped him. It's intended as a place for analysis and discussion from a variety of perspectives.

If that's something you're interested in, you're welcome to join.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 6 days ago

👋Welcome to r/PsychologyofMJ - Read First!

Welcome to r/PsychologyofMJ

Welcome to r/PsychologyofMJ, a community dedicated to discussing the psychology of Michael Jackson.

The purpose of this subreddit is to explore the factors that shaped his personality, behavior, relationships, decision-making, and public persona. Topics may include his childhood, family dynamics, identity, fame, mental health, interpersonal relationships, criminal allegations, and other aspects of his life through a psychological lens.

This is a place for thoughtful discussion, debate, and different interpretations. You don't have to agree with everyone, but conversations should remain civil and focused on the topic rather than personal attacks.

Whether you're here to share your own theories, analyze interviews and events, or simply learn from others, we hope you'll find the discussions interesting and insightful.

Welcome to r/PsychologyofMJ.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 6 days ago

Michael Talking about going to nightclubs at age 5 and seeing men sniff womans underwear

This popped up on my TikTok and reminded me of how Marie Nicole said he sniffed her vagina. I also read somewhere that J5 had a music number where Michael would go into the audience and look up womans skirts as a bit. It's no wonder he became a pervert.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 7 days ago

The allegations are too sick and twisted to be real.

I've seen people make this statement multiple times. To defenders the frauds (victims) are just trying to come up with the grossest stories imaginable to make MJ look bad, no one could be that disturbed. Actually Michael was very disturbed , when I first heard Wade Robson detail how Michael abused him it was one of the first times I believed he was a pedophile. The stories are too detailed and unusual for them not to be real, you can't sit down and make up the sick twisted sex acts they claim he did. Being a pedophile is already horrible but he somehow made it worse, something was very wrong with him. He really fooled the world.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 7 days ago

Disturbing story about young MJ

*Trigger warning for CSA*

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This is an exerpt from Darwin Porters book "Jacko: his rise and fall". I don't think I believe this but thought it was significant enough to post.

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Also around the time of his marriage to Lisa Marie [Presley], there were allegations floating around that as a pre-pubescent, Michael was "pimped" to pedophiles within the record industry as a means of promoting the advance of The Jackson 5. There is no evidence that this is true but the rumors--some of them quite convincing--still persist.

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To our knowledge, the only person who tried to sell such a story was a sleazy record producer we'll call John Stoffer, who worked the Detroit music industry for some twenty years. He approached the National Enquirer with a very detailed account of how nine-year-old Michael was allegedly delivered to his hotel room in Detroit. His account didn't specify who made the delivery.

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For a fee of ten thousand dollars, Stoffer was willing to tell all. In his report, he gave a very detailed and specific account of how he allegedly sodomized young Michael. "The boy cried through the ordeal and even bled," Stoffer claimed. "But I liked that. You see, I'm quite small down there. I used to be basically straight, but several women laughed at the size of my organ. I turned to young boys--very young--because I achieved great satisfaction in penetrating their tight, virgin butts. Michael was no exception. He was real tight. When I saw the pain I was causing him, it goaded me on and made me feel more like a man."

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Although Stoffer offered times, dates, and places that checked out, his charges could not be proven. The staff at the National Enquirer decided not to publish the scoop, considering it too undocumented for publication. However, Stoffer did help promote and publicize The Jackson 5 and was instrumental in getting radio stations to play the group's records. In his dossier, Stoffer said that Michael was "delivered" to him on three different occasions, and that "each time the boy cried when he was penetrated."

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A member of the Enquirer staff said, "We published more stories about Michael Jackson than any other modern celebrity.... But what we've published is only a grain of sand on the beach. The Enquirer has been approached countless of times by people trying to sell stories about Jacko. Some of them were obvious frauds. Others were quite convincing, but too shocking for the Enquirer.**** Incidentally, I no longer work there."

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 16 days ago

Michael's hyperfixation on his father

MJ had a strange fixation on his relationship with his father. It seemed like almost every time he told the "I didn't have a childhood" story, it was followed by a discussion about how horrible Joe was. I don't think he was always using it to gain sympathy. There was that odd story about Marlon Brando questioning him about his sexuality, and Michael apparently broke down crying and said he hated his father.

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Michael also constantly seemed to seek out father figures, such as his bodyguard Bill Bray. There's an actual letter written by MJ in which he thanks Bray "for being the father I never had." I've also seen several mentions of Bobby Taylor describing himself as the father figure Michael never had. It's striking how often Michael brought up his poor relationship with Joe; it was one of the few subjects that could consistently make him emotional in public.

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By the 2000s, Michael appeared to have forgiven him. He gave a very emotional speech about how he believed his father loved him deep down, and he even started crying—he was in his 40s by then. In the Living with Michael Jackson documentary, he also tears up while talking about how badly he wanted to call Joe "Daddy."

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I think some wires got crossed in his head, because I'm not entirely sure what to make of it. Michael often gravitated toward children who lacked involved fathers, reportedly wanted some of them to call him "Daddy," and among the erotica found at Neverland were books with titles like Fathers and Sons. There definitely seems to have been some kind of Freudian dynamic at work in his mind.

Edit - I added these pictures because Michael seemed so happy to have his father by his side during the 2005 trial. This middle aged man was so elated to hold his fathers hand. He kinda looks like a kid in these, It makes me feel bad for him

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 18 days ago

MJ "flirting" with Emmanuel Lewis

This was at the 1984 grammys where he infamously took Brooke Shields and Emmanuel Lewis. He ignored Brooke the whole night in favor of this small child. It's actually crazy how smitten he is in this clip

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 20 days ago
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Allegation: Michael Jackson Sorted Fan Mail by Race, Throwing Away Letters From Black Children

I read the exerpt from the book "Michael Jackson was my lover" I know most of this book has been proven to be false (particularly the SA portions), but the interviews done with his former maid and assistant seem believable. If this is true it would be a new low even for him. He despised his own race.

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 6 days ago

The girl from the River Main identified as Diana S.

LYON, France – German authorities have arrested a suspect in a long-running cold case following the identification of a murder victim whose body was discovered in the River Main nearly 25 years ago. The teenage girl has been identified as ‘Diana S.’

The arrest was carried out on 12 May 2026 by the Hessian State Criminal Police Office, acting on the initiative of the Public Prosecutor’s Office in Frankfurt am Main. The suspect, a 67-year-old German citizen, and the victim’s father, has been placed in pre-trial detention on suspicion of murder.

The case was part of Identify Me, an international campaign coordinated by INTERPOL with six European countries (Belgium, France, Germany, Italy, the Netherlands, Spain), aiming to identify 47 women whose bodies were found across Europe over recent decades and to advance investigations.

One of those cases, known as The Girl in the River Main, dates back to 31 July 2001, when the body of a young girl was discovered floating in the River Main in Frankfurt by passers-by. Investigators later determined that the victim had been violently assaulted and was aged 16 at the time of her death.

For many years, the case remained unresolved. However, a significant breakthrough came when the case was added to the Identify Me public appeal in October 2024, which called on the public to provide information relating to the victim’s identity and circumstances of her death.

Several tips from members of the public led investigators to pursue new leads, ultimately resulting in the arrest of the suspect. Investigations remain ongoing, and further details cannot be disclosed at this stage.

INTERPOL Secretary General Valdecy Urquiza said:

“This identification, followed by the arrest of a suspect, underscores how important it is to continue investigating unresolved cold cases. As part of the Identify Me campaign, the efforts of the German authorities, supported by information from the public, have helped advance a case that had remained open for a quarter of a century. 

“Developments such as this highlight the benefits of combining public engagement with sustained investigative work and forensic capabilities. INTERPOL will continue to support its member countries in identifying unknown deceased persons and enhancing international cooperation in ongoing investigations.”

https://www.interpol.int/News-and-Events/News/2026/Identify-Me-arrest-in-Germany-after-murder-victim-is-identified

u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 1 month ago

Weird video where MJ asks camera crew to film a female fan's chest

MJ fans find this video clip funny, but to me it’s actually kind of gross. He literally pushes security out of the way to point out a fan and tells the cameramen under his breath to focus on her chest. I can’t find that cute at all—why secretly film someone like that? It just makes him seem like voyeuristic Pervert.

I’m also going to acknowledge the little boy accompanying him and holding his hand.

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u/Efficient-Head-7394 — 1 month ago