Is it okay to admit as a husband and a man that you like to get dominated and treated as a femboy in bed? will that make me less as a man infront of other’s eyes ?
Is it okay to admit that you like watching when swinging? Is it okay as a husband and a man to admit you are submissive and likes to get dominated by other’s? Will that make me a good for nothing husband or make me a less as a man to admit I'm not alpha dom male. Because in real life I'm more of a normal guy but when it comes to bed it's different.
Hey everyone I(36) and my wife(34) have been married for now like almost 10 years, happily married and madly in love with each other. We recently had our swinging experience with another couple which went great than we expected and thanks to this lifestyle we both get to know each other’s desires and needs that we didn’t know before. I wasn’t someone dom in bed unlike most men.
I was the one who suggested about this lifestyle to my wife and in the beginning she wasn’t sure about it but after lots of discussion and communications over several months we both finally agreed to try.
We met a couple at a club and tried soft swap first like kissing, caressing thighs and breasts which went well because we thought soft swap would be enough but both the couple felt needed more so we took things to a hotel room
We both slowly swapped partners after getting started with some kisses and caresses.
The thing is after a point i realised i was getting more turned on and distracted by seeing my wife getting railed by another man.
I asked other person's wife to dominate me...which i never asked my wife before.
His wife happily did it...she kept edging me...and didn’t let me cum then she made me suck her finger, rode my face like her pleasure only matters. She then made me bend over and smacked my ass several times even smacked with her husband’s belt...which i really loved it.
Then she kicked me in the balls with her knee and made me kneel down to stick her finger into my mouth and fucked me....she then used her heels and pressed it against my cock and balls...it gave a painful pleasure and loved it...it was all new experiences.
She then made me watch her husband fucking the shit out of my wife...then pushed my face like under thag guys legs and balls to make me watch him balls deep into my wife's pussy. I could see his balls going so deep into my wife's pussy that close...my eyes and mouth were widened in awestruck.
Then i always wanted to try wearing woman outfit so i wore her panties and acted like a femboy. It was so thrilling on other side i could see my wife completely lost in the moment with the guy like she was screaming loudly like never before and letting the guy fuck her around all over the room and even saw her getting fucked up in the air position.
I was so happy knowing we both were enjoying each and every second of this moment.
After that, the woman made me sit on a chair before she joined my wife and her husband in bed. It was a wild threesome from there and they put a great show for me...i was so turned on and thrilled that they even forget that i was there.
My wife noticed how completely submissive i was, which she was surprised and liked seeing me in another woman’s panties.
I was happy to see her having multiple orgasms after orgasms. In the end we both hugged in tears like we are afraid to let go each other...our love was still there moreover it grow even more, the other couple looked at our emotional breakdown and said...you guys are so lucky to have each other.
Me and my wife went home next day and i openly talked about what i like...that all these years i was shy to open about it to her that i love being treated as a slave in sex and be a femboy in sex. She hugged me and told...no matter what she always will love me and encouraged me. I felt i was so happy and lucky to her at that moment.
I was afraid to show this side to my wide before because i didn’t want to feel like I'm less as a man that in sex I'm more of a feminine man.
She also admitted that she was afraid if i will be mad at her and was feeling guilty for enjoying more...i assured her i was so happy for her to finally getting her sexual needs and desires satisfied. I told her she deserves it as her husband...i might not able to give her some things and i don’t want her to not experience because of that. I want both of us to do things without holding back.We both kissed and agreed to take things together.
Is it okay to admit to people next time when we swing? will they look at me different after that ? Does guy like me who's a complete submissive type survive in swinging lifestyle?
will we get any swinging couple if we told in advance? What label they will give me...who is someone like to watch and get dominated, degraded in swinging sessions.
Also What all things i can do to get more involved and active when we swing with a couple? What should i tell other person's wife...like i want you to do like this ? Type of things a submissive person can get pleasure.