u/Electrical-Speech998

I am tired of being single.

I am 22, have been single for a few years. My last relationship lasted 3 years and it wasn't the healthiest relationship, I think she was emotionally abusive and it honestly hurt me, don't get me wrong there were some good parts but yeah. I think I have been scared to date someone because of this but now that I am graduated from college I just have no clue how I will meet someone now that I am just simply tired of being alone.

I just want someone to spend time with to have a future to look forward to, someone that I can be there for and spend time with. Especially now that I am graduated with a full time job I don't wanna just keep coming home to sleep or leave the house to workout alone or with friends. Don't get me wrong I like hanging out with friends but it just isn't the same.

I guess looking back on the good parts of my last relationship is what I really want and I miss that feeling of driving home excited for what would be to come in our relationship. I just am not the best at talking to women that I like, easy when it is my friend but different when I am interested in them.

I also think I am not the best looking person and am a bit short (5'7) my friends make fun of me for that especially one girl that is friends with me. I have also been feeling down lately however and a bit depressed. A part of me says to continue to take care of myself and the right one will come to me, but I guess why can't I do both, and if I wanna do both I guess how?

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u/Electrical-Speech998 — 4 days ago

I've been still feeling depressed after working out and hanging out with friends.

So I have been feeling depressed lately and I was hoping just hanging out with my friends and keeping myself busy with working out and everything could help improve my mental state but I still feel depressed and I am really not sure what to do. I have also been taking multivitamins and getting good sleep.

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u/Electrical-Speech998 — 6 days ago
▲ 7 r/Jung

So I have been getting more and more interested in space. In thinking about the vastness of it all, I can’t help but wonder how people interpret this through a Jungian psychology lens.

Do experiences of cosmic scale or insignificance ever connect to ideas like the unconscious, the Self, or the way we relate to meaning in a psychological sense? I sometimes find myself wondering whether our actions matter long term, or if that feeling is more about how the psyche responds to scale and uncertainty.

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u/Electrical-Speech998 — 18 days ago

I've been cleaning up along trails and just wondering if there are spots you guys have found with a good amount of litter? I just want to make sure my efforts are in the right spots

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u/Electrical-Speech998 — 21 days ago
▲ 3 r/Ethics

So I have been feeling sort of like I am not really taking actions to leave the world a better place then I found it. For this reason I am donating monthly to causes I believe in. I feel guilty because I think I am donating to make myself feel better, and think this could be unethical in some way? Like I am using the suffering of others and donating to feel better.

I can mitigate this somewhat by not telling people I know that I donate so it is more altruistic but I am not sure how one addresses this other side where a part of me knows I am doing this to find more fulfillment.

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u/Electrical-Speech998 — 25 days ago