u/ElectronicBoot9466

Like, what happened to the poor guy? Do we have lore behind this?

While I was working on my [[Twelfth Doctor]] and [[Romana II]] deck, I was looking for impulse draw and came across [[Kayla's Music Box]] from the Brother's War commander set. I don't think I have ever seen anyone play or talk about this card before, and it has never come up in my searches, because I have never found myself looking for impulse draw while in white before.

The effect is slow, but it's a card advantage engine in monowhite. It doesn't draw other opponents cards or require someone else to draw first or take any actions, you just get to exile a card under it every turn that you can play on a later turn, unless you wsnt to play something from under it, in which case you lose the draw that turn. If you have 3 mana when you cast it, it pretty much replaces itself too, and it's more protected, because it's out of your hand.

The cards are face down, too. So while the cards under it are vulnerable to the box being removed, it's hard for opponents to guage whether or not it's actually worth spending removal on based on what you could cast with it next turn.

I don't know, it just looked like a neat little draw engine for mono-white, boros, and certain naya and selesnya decks that I don't see getting played a lot.

After a lot of thought and experience, I think I have come to the conclusion that my romantic and sexual attraction to people are somewhat inversely related. I am definitely very much sexually attracted to people (bisexual with gyno preference), but the last couple of long term relationships I have had with people I have related a LOT to the experiences of sex positive asexual people in regards to my partners.

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I was still very romantically attracted to them, I found them beautiful beyond esthetic appreciation, I loved showing fictional affection and I felt things when cuddling and making out with them that I don't feel when making out with friends or strangers, but very shortly after those feelings fully blossomed, my sexual attraction completely went away. I still did and enjoyed having sex with them, but I didn't feel the same active drive of attraction towards them anymore that I did towards people I was attracted to that I didn't have romantic feelings for. Like, emotionally, sex was basically just cuddling or play, the only difference between those things really was physical.

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I really do feel like the feeling is linked to romantic attraction to me, and I understand that demisexual people also have a link between sexual and romantic attraction, but just a direct link rather than an inverse one. I really don't think this is just a matter of getting bored or needing to spice things up. I feel it on a lower scale as well. Does anyone else feel this way or know anyone that does? I met someone once who was similar to me, but they become sex repulsed towards people they develop romantic feelings for, whereas I still feel sex positive, just not attraction.

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Is there a term for this, or do I need to do some queer terminology trail blazing?