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Relationship advice pls

Hi my bf m30 told me the other day that he is taking his time to move out because of his mom. He says no one helps her & he’s the only one who does things with her. She has a husband and 4 other sons. We use to go on dates with his parents every weekend till i told him i miss that one on one time with him sometimes since he works so much and i only see him on weekends. He said that’s her time to go out too since she’s always stuck babysitting her grand kid and her husband rarely takes her out he just sits on his phone. They go grocery shopping together and when something is needed around the house he’ll go with her and most likely pay for it. Im f27 concerned about where i fit in his future since he does all the house things with his mom already and if he doesn’t who will? I just don’t know how i fit in his life i know he wants his own family and marriage one day but i just don’t know how if he’s always gonna be looking out for his mom. He even plans out what they do for their anniversary every year and takes the parents out he even mentioned once that hai dad is weird and gets jealous sometimes im general Any advice?

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u/Electronic_Key_8379 — 6 days ago
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Have y’all ever had a bf who spends more time with his mom?

If so how did u deal? My bf m30 goes grocery shopping with his mom, when she’s sick he’ll stay with her and barely see me f(27)she will wake up at 4 in the morning when he wakes up to help him pack lunch, he buys her food almost everyday. I feel like he spends more time with her & cant help sometimes feeling left out. I concerned cause how is he going to be when we start a life together. Who’s going to take care of her keep in mind she does have a husband and 3 other sons. But my bf the only one who does things with her. Any advice?

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u/Electronic_Key_8379 — 29 days ago