u/Elegant_Secret845

She did it. She killed her kids. Get tf over this winter was right . 😭😂 yall some birds 🐦

THIS IS NOT ABT THE POD! But this community hits different! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yall is it just me or when a man wants to stick it in my
a$$ so bad I think he's gay asf.

I been dating this guy since March, and honestly, he's really perfect for me, atleast that’s what I thought until last night, he has 2 degrees, very family orientated. He's perfect. He works out, eats good, motivates me! we've only had about one big disagreement, but didn't last so long. He's truly he's so sweet and loving, he takes care of me in all different ways.

But....... this thing happened where it really threw me
tf off
Tell me why last night he tried to slip it in my ass and for 5 mins was begging me. My first thought was "oh this mka gay. Why does he want to stick it in my b*tt knowing I have a whole 🐱 “.

He was so desperate, asking to please please let him try ill like it... talking about he had to just "ram it in" Is it just me? Or is it normal to think that. I told him no I don't like that. And he kept pushing until I said bro chill back tf up I said no !!!!

I know a lot of women like this, and they say it feels good, but I've been in two other long relationships which one was three years, and the other one was two, and they are the only 2 l've tried that with.... I just don't like it and it doesn't feel good to me.

I am best friends with 2 gay men and 2 cousins who are gay and the thought of him wanting to use the same hole knowing I got a whole punani right here is crazzzyyyyyyyy

I'm not homophobic, but I'm also not with that gay $hit. There's a lot of men out there who are DL and I don't want to get caught up in none of that. I know nowadays everyone gets canceled, but no I don't want my future husband to be gay

So my question to you ladies is do y'all agree or am I overly going 😂

My ex and I were together for 1 year and 5 months.
I was fresh out of a relationship literally 1 week out from a 3 year relationship. He knew this and didn’t care if anything it made him love me more I would assume. He instantly stole my heart with his actions. He never judged me and I literally acted like I never had an ex. I was completely detached from my previous relationship!
Our relationship was perfect, never fought, never had any toxic moments. He was such a gentleman and always took care of me financially, mentally. He was so much fun!

Then 1 year and 5 months into it, he started going out with friends all night and not answering his phone, canceling plans with me, was SO cold and distant.
He would block me from his insta stories so I wouldn’t see what he’s doing.

I found out he followed an ex of his! And was liking her pics, I found out cause I decided to go through his following at that time. They were spamming new phones and I just know he wouldn’t follow her before.

I instantly called him and broke up with him, this was March 2025. He acted like he didn’t care. Not till this day has he reached out to me. And I’ve been hurt !!!!! But quiet

2 months after we broke up, which was now at this time may 2025 , he got with a girl from FL. (We’re from CA) Acting like he was in love with her ! I was stalking his Instagram thru the website that allows you to watch stories anonymously.
Posting like they were in a committed relationship when I was always there for him and now he’s treating her like that ????!!
Then I realized they broke up 2 months after. From stalking so much I could tell everything ! From the post they’d put up , etc.

And then another 3 months after he got with someone else , who now he acts like he’s all in love with her too. I feel so upset cause I was there for the lowest times as he was for me. And I cannot stop watching them. I wake up and lurk on his profile, the girl after me, and the girl now. I can’t stop.

I check their page multiple times a day and my blood boils , when I see them happy together. Like how could I get over this !!? Can someone pls tell me why I’m like this. I feel like such a hater. Like I have these thoughts where I pray and wish they don’t succeed. I’ve never been like this but he left me and never fought for me ..

Hello.. I’m posting this because I need some advice and I would love to hear some feedback about people who started their own Esthetician journey or anyone who can relate…

I am currently working at a medical spa located in the city of Los Angeles. Will not disclose location of course.
I’ve been working here for 3 years, and honestly, I fucking hate the owners. I’m still here because no one else has hired me and I do get paid $28 an hour with tips, commission if I sell. They are so horrible and so money hungry.
I recently found out that they’ve been taking out like one hour to 3 hours from my check, not thinking I would notice.
They sell these packages, promising women they will have results with treatments & will never need a facelift.
Obviously, these women are so vulnerable in the moment and will do these $5000+ packages and then come and give me the most hardest time ever because the owners swore that they would see results after the first time. Like we are literally doing facials and you really expect us to give you a facelift?…
They know exactly who to target because not everybody falls for their sales tactics.
They have never sent me to get certified for certain treatments, the owners taught me how to do these treatments within one hour before each treatment when I first started 3 years ago. Red flag already.
They never want to call people back regarding complaints, saying that they want their money back and that falls on us, mainly ME cause I’m always there.

I’m just super unhappy as well because I’ve only had two raises my whole time being there, while being lead Esthetician and manager of our office. I deal with everything, I trained everybody, and I don’t get paid for training. Everyone, I’ve learned to deal with certain problems on my own and make this situation better too, since they can never handle anything.
I feel like I am running this medicalspa and I am underpaid.
This past December was the first time that they only gave me a $500 bonus, which was very appreciated, but I would’ve preferred a raise
I recently asked if I can get a raise, and I was told we are a little bit slow right now, but once we pick up, we will get busy again and I will continue to get my tips in hourly. That’s literally a no just wait till we get busy.
I’m so fed up, I feel like I am not growing at all.
I really want to start nursing school, but I need this job to pay my bill…
With that being said, my questions to you are how is your solo esthetician journey going? Are you using social media to promote yourself? Are you paying ads? Is it scary to be on your own? I guess I’m just looking for some reassurance that everything will be… any comments, questions, feedback would be super appreciated.
Before I end this, I do know and have a great feeling that they don’t want to value me because they know that I need this job as well. They know it’s hard for me being on my own… I see their evil ways. I want to break away asap 😭🙏🏼