r/behindthelikespod

I really would like to know why this 7 week pregnancy by a random man is so traumatic to Winter after joking about her prior abortions from men that she actually had long relationships with. Also, I know several women that have done the pill abortion and have actually taken care of 2 of my friends while they were actively going through it and I have NEVER heard them describe it as “contractions”😭 they were in severe pain and said it was like cramps x10 but contractions is one of many very particular verbiage Winter was using to minimize Chy bringing life into this world… strange

Every single time I get suggested a post it’s just someone picking apart every facial expression and comment winter and Chy make towards each other (or a guest) and it’s honestly crazy how they think they’re so right too. You see 1 edited hour of them interacting with each other a week and make such large narratives about their relationship and character, it kinda blows my mind.
Are you all always super perfect, selfless, kind, never in a bad mood 24/7? Especially towards people you’re friends with? Probably not.. maybe you should record that and put it on the internet. Just because there is one little sign of irritation or sadness in their gestures doesn’t mean they hate each other or their guests… I didn’t think that was such a grand concept lol.
My boyfriend and friends do things to piss me off all the time but I still love them, that holds true for others as well.

I feel that, when I no longer connect with a podcast or creator, I don’t watch them anymore

And Its Crazy How Winter Used To Brag About Abortions And How She Would Deletus The Fetus In A Heartbeat But Yet She Is Traumatized From Her 7 Week Miscarriage

This is my first ever post on Reddit so please bare with me. I’ve always noticed Wintrr’s seemingly disdain towards Christian’s. For example, she uses “bible thumpers” and insinuates that black people need to look more into Christianity in front of a black woman. I find it interesting that any other group of minority/lgbtq+/religions would be extremely opposed if this outward hate was towards their group but this sentiment continually gets mocked. You never want to force anyone to do anything and I can respect Chy for at least remaining neutral even if it goes against her beliefs but I just cannot easily extend that same respect for Wintrr who constantly disrespects Christian’s. I genuinely think motherhood is going to be the straw that breaks the camels back in their friendship, unfortunately. However, I wish them both the best individual.

what happened? I stopped following them for a long time and am just coming back

It’s just so crazy to me that she’s been so adamant about not being a baby mama but as soon as Chy announces she’s pregnant, she also gets pregnant and decides to keep it even tho the man ain’t shit lol.

Then days before Chy’s baby shower, she has a miscarriage & tries to shift the attention to herself by crying about it on the pod.

Now Chy just gave birth and tells her labor story and winter is STILL talking about this miscarriage. Even Chy said “I’m sorry but it’s crazy how you became so attached so quickly” like girl PLEASE. I hate to say this but I really feel like she’s jealous of Chy and hates to see all the attention on her. I think Chy notices it too but doesn’t say anything for the sake of keeping the podcast

I’m only 17 mins in but you guys were making it seem like winter was super moody, cutting chy off to relate with her miscarriage and didn’t care that chy is back to filming. She was definitely nice and gave her time and gave her space to tell her story. Could this one episode have only been about chy and the baby yes but winter isn’t being totally mean or dismissive from what I see right now. And side note chy isn’t even a good story teller nor does she like talking about herself so I’m even lowkey trying not to fast forward her part.

Does winter only care about this miscarriage baby because everyone else/ chy has a baby? Probably. But again I doing see her not giving chy the full floor to tell the story.

okay so just finished. Winter always been me me me but yikes. Cuz why are we still talking about a miscarriage after a birth????b Like podcasters be getting parasocial to their audience bc we are not your therapist. I get its her show and she's an open book but we already heard the story, so why are we talking about it again? I get she has depression and bpd but I'm seeing how certain people can be exhausting.

Is they show going bicoastal? Should Chy move to NY?? Idk bc wow Evan wasn't there. Just sent flowers.... pathetic.

anyways im glad Chy had a safe Birth shoutout to the mothers

i just know within a few episodes Winters gonna be talking about how she’s not on Lexapro no more cus it was making her feel like xyz .

In yesterday’s episode, she said that people were coming at her in her DM’s because of what she posted on her story regarding a religion she practices. What did y’all see in her story? I’m so curious to know what she was doing lol because she made it sound like it was witchcraft

i always watched the pod and thought winter was so blessed (she still is) for her career to be to post pics, talk about her life and be able to just chill / go to appointments/ travel around. most of us work and have kids or are still figuring it out. me personally i’m in grad school, work two jobs and am trying to establish my career. i barely have time / $ to travel and buy clothes all the time. i love my life and im very grateful for it all but ofc on my lunch break when i go online and see these girls doing hauls for doing nothing / just being influencers im like ugh lucky bitches. i would have never thought winter struggled w depression the way she did based on how her life is. it’s just a good lesson showing how important it is to just be present in your own life, thankful for what you have and staying as positive as possible. i struggle w mental health as well so ik depression and anxiety is more than that , its hard to explain what i mean but hopefully one of yall get it. if you wanna fight in the comments fight yourself im writing a research paper rn auntie dont got time

I was really excited for Chy and winter made this all about her. Maybe she doesn’t realize how selfish that was? There is no way

It’s just a little distasteful and i’ve noticed this on all the guest episodes. Chy is the only one who actually does the work and asks insightful questions

I knew yall would come running here talking shit about winter . Yall get mad at chy for not being open about what she is going through in real time but when winter opens up about what she is going through in real time yall bash her for it and say sick shit like she’s trying to take the spot light off chy . Yall do know pregnancy is almost a year long right ? Chy has been pregnant for damn near a year ! So how long do yall expect winter to not share her personal experiences just because Chy is pregnant . I don’t understand the winter hate at all . Out of her and Chy winter is the only one who’s been willing to give all her tea for the sake of the podcast and here yall go hating on her for it . We’re watching a women in REAL TIME navigate life in her 30’s and I hate how yall judge her for that .