u/ElyxirCreations

I was my healer valk and started healing an angelic and they started attacking me and said they hated the healers, then I got chased by another valk and another flier for nothing?? if you didn't want healed, you could've said stop?? It didn't help that I was lagging so bad I couldn't even try running away, but why gang up on me for doing my job?? It made me so angry and confused because I have NEVER been attacked by a person for healing them. If they don't want to be healed, they use their words like an adult and request not to be healed. So is this a thing that's just happening now, or is this a one-time thing? If it's just gonna happen a bunch, I find that absolutely stupid. Also, why kill me? Obviously, if they said not to heal them and attacked me for it, I was going to leave them alone. Why kill me and make me waste 2 revives? Idk, I'm just really peeved over it. It makes no sense

So, recently, I lost my cat. He was a week away from being 17, and he was my world. I knew the end was coming as he had been sick, but had been doing pretty well for a long while, so I had saved up about 2 weeks of vacation time for when the end would finally come. Well, one night, he just never got better after having a scare, so I made the very hard decision to have him euthanized. The decision itself had me crying for at least 3 hours that night, and the next day, we took him to the vet to ask if they could do it at my home, so he would be the most comfortable. It broke me. I texted my manager, explained what had happened, and got the rest of the week (3 days) and the whole next week off. That cat was my baby. The moms who worked with me would always include me in mom talk because my boy was my kid. I talked about him just like the moms talked about their kids.

When I came back to work, my district manager was there and was casting me a few weird looks. I figured he must've seen the schedule and was wondering why I was off for a week and a half. I completely expected him to come and ask, but he never did. He said he'd be back within the next few days and then left. I went to my manager and asked if he'd asked about my week off, and she said no and asked why. I told her that the district manager had been looking at me weirdly the whole time he was there, and thought maybe that was the reason. She simply shrugged and said he might ask me later.

Here's the thing about my district manager: He doesn't seem like the type to understand the death of an animal, like how it could affect someone, just like losing a family member. That's simply the vibe he gives off. Here's where the issue comes in: I told her if he asks, I'll tell him the truth, but if he tells me 'it's just a cat,' then that will be my last day. I had gotten comments on that when I made a Facebook post for the family friends to see that I wasn't friends with, and I cannot handle those kinds of comments because he wasn't 'just a cat'.

I thought nothing of telling her until the word got around about what I'd said, since one of my other coworkers heard it. I'd gotten a few of them saying that it was kind of a dick move to say such a thing because the store needed me. Apparently, the week that I was gone was awful, and people couldn't wait for me to come back because I was so quick with things. It got me wondering if what I said really was too much. I still stand by what I said. If anyone tells me 'it's just a cat,' I wouldn't be able to work with them or work for them. So, am I the asshole?

Edit: I realized the conversation between my manager and I wasn't described very well. My mind has been all over the place since his passing, so apologies. The whole conversation between her and I was civil and respectful. I wasn't exactly trying to threaten, just warn. I don't want to work under someone who has a lack of empathy. My district manager and I rarely ever speak, and the fact he was constantly looking at me with either an angry or confused face was a bit concerning to me. I have autism so I could very much be reading into it wrong, and I will take responsibility for it. On top of that, experience with management isn't exactly great. Thankfully, my current manager is pretty good and understanding. Also, my manager, during the conversation, was very understanding of the situation. We talked in her office with the door closed so I have no idea how my coworker heard unless they came to ask her a question and listened in, which is possible because certain coworkers tend to love the drama. I understand that I may be an asshole for jumping the gun, but I really wanted to warn her should it actually happen. If anything happens within the week, I'll update

So, I recently came back to the game after taking a 3 year break. I remember when Areis came out, and I wanted one. I still do. I've recently seen other role limited species, and I wanna get them. How do I even go about that? Is it pure luck to get into the same server as a content creator, or do I have to do something?

So I have a feral kora that has weight and damage. Ven 1 rn, and I leveled up damage. I'm not the best at pvp, and I recently just got back into the game after quitting. I'm going to try to get it to ven 5, but what should be leveled up the most? I was thinking just all damage, but I'm not sure, and I thought I'd ask for advice.