u/ElyxirCreations

I had recently trait hunted and gt hunted a boreal. I changed the skin and everything. I love it a lot. Yesterday, I got killed because and I quote 'It's too pretty to exist'. Today, after I had a death in my family last night, I was trying to ven the same boreal. The server was super chill. An npc came and attacked me and stayed out of my hitbox so someone had to rescue me. I was low and a taka who'd been flinging people came over and flung me. I aggro called at it to show my displeasure. It apparently made the taka upset cuz they said 'don't aggro at me. You'll lose' I replied 'don't attack me, I'm low' then realized it sounded like a threat because of wardens rage so I added a please. I was 99% to ven 2. They paused before him and a turrim attacked me. They were chill until then- I venned literally right before their killing strike. I'm still pissed about it

So I've never played mufo before but I love the design and I've heard they're tanks, so I trait grinded one. As I'm mut hunting in hardcore realm, I get attacked but COULDN'T HIT THE THING ATTACKING ME. I died, revived, and tried again. Got attacked again, and AGAIN couldn't hit the dude in front of me, even though my face was literally inside their creature. My poor mufo was killed four times because of my hitbox. Why is it so low to the ground? Why is it so trash? Can the devs PLEASE fix that? I feel like that should've been fixed ages ago. They worked on this creature and the hitbox is ass. Why not fix it?

I have no idea how, but I've killed two golgs with my miju. The first time wasn't fully me, but my friend joined to do the appa quest. He came to say hi, and golg killed him the moment he got close. I fought the gold by staying inside its tail. Got hit twice. Was going at it for about three minutes when a noxu did two hits, but I got the kill.

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The second was a golg kosing in oasis. I came up and did the exact same thing. I stayed on its tail. The people at oasis simply watched lol. It took a hot minute, bit I eventually killed it. My miju is nothing special. It's got weight trait and is only on ven 1. I have double void on it. I'm not very good at pvp so it surprised me I fought two golgs and won lol

So I have a weight/damage Geo I've been venerating. It's at stage 4. I've been upgrading damage this whole time. For the last upgrade, should I do weight or damage?

This has been going on for a week now, and I thought I was okay, but I've had so many people tell me I'm wrong about this, and now I'm questioning things.

So, I was talking to one of my coworkers about a week ago, and she was talking about getting a cat. She apparently recently found out about wobbly cats and thought they were adorable, which I do agree with her on, but I think all cats are cute. She told me that she wanted a wobbly cat and started showing me videos excitedly. I watched the videos with her since she was so excited.

I told her I wished her luck on finding a wobbly cat, but warned her they were a lot of work. It wasn't always going to be cute. There would be struggles, too. She asked me what I meant, and I told her about all the lifestyle changes, the vet appointments, and the changes in her home she'd have to do. According to her, the way I listed everything off made her think I disliked them. I told her that I don't dislike them, but I would never own a wobbly cat. That was apparently the wrong thing to say. She accused me of hating them and told me that all cats deserved a good home. I told her that I fully agreed with her. I explained that my last cat, whom I lost just over a month ago, had so many needs because he had diabetes. It was exhausting, but I did it because I loved him and I wanted what was best for him. I explained that I appreciate the responsible cat owners who own a wobbly cat and put in all the work to make sure they are healthy and happy, but that I just wouldn't be able to do it. Wobbly cats can't clean themselves, so they'd need to be bathed regularly. You need padding on your walls so they don't hurt themselves; they're simply too much work for me. She eventually stormed off, angry. I have no idea why. Apparently, she told our other coworkers, and now, I have like 5 to 6 people upset with me and calling me cruel.

I'm so confused. I'm autistic, so I may be missing something here. I honestly don't think this is something to be upset at me for. So, AITAH

Like I get it, it's to lessen revenge kills when I die and the timer happens so I can't get to my slots, but when I'm randomly killed and wanna just play as one of my other creatures, or there's a war against a kosing squid and I just wanna get my healer, why do I gotta wait TWO minutes? So much could happen in that time. Same with being in combat. I'm somehow targeted a lot. No matter what I use. Why do I gotta wait 20 seconds before I can menu? I thought it's supposed to be 10? I'm constantly having to wait 20 before I can menu and by that time, I'm already getting attacked again, starting the timer over. Like, why such long timers? I can see a minute to get to my slots, but why two? And why isn't the menu timers always 10? Why does it randomly decide that I gotta wait 20 all the time? I decided to use my boreal for the first time in a while, and I was attacked for SIXTEEN minutes. I literally was recording when it happened, so I have the exact timing. I was getting ankle bit, and anytime I'd kill them, they'd come back a few seconds later. I couldn't even menu because I had a 20-second wait timer constantly, meaning they'd be back and attacking me again before I could menu. Like, Why?

I was in a pack and decided to try my Boreal for the first time since it first came out. I spawned in and was chilling with my pack for a while, and then I decided to go to oasis since it was right next door. I was a different creature beforehand and had been chilling in oasis for a while before joining the pack and becoming boreal, and there had been a kavo in the oasis that had been killing people left and right, including some of my packmates, since I had joined shortly before grabbing my boreal. As I headed to oasis, there was a kavo walking toward the mesa and was part of my pack, and I thought to myself, "Huh, that looks like the kavo that was killing people," and sure enough, after I'd passed it, it started attacking me. I got caught off guard because last I knew, Packmates couldn't attack eachother (recently started playing again after I quit 3-4 years ago). It was a close battle, but I won, and the Kavo, the coward they were, ran, only to get attacked by the pack who were on the sidelines, not wanting to get in the way. They ended up logging. Like, what was the point? Why attack me and then run when you know you're gonna lose? I, personally, was surprised I won since I'm absolute dog water at pvp, especially since my anxiety makes me start VIOLENTLY SHAKING. But what kind of person attacks someone, then runs when they start losing? Coward behavior is what it is. Why is it even possible to attack a pack member? That makes no sense at all to me. If we're part of a pack, shouldn't we not do damage? From what I was told and what I saw, damage from a pack member is less than if you weren't in the pack together, which is nice, but still... why?

So, I was a ghibli. My one friend is going to be teaching me how to do pvp and he told me he'll teach me using ghibli. So, I wanted to trait and mut hunt Ghibli, so I have a good one. I got a nest set up and started going around to get the materials needed to upgrade my nest. I had gotten them mutation alcove to the third upgrade, I believe. I went out to get more mushrooms and a chisudo showed up outta nowhere and started attacking me. I ran away and made it back to oasis to rest off the bleed. It followed me the whole way and followed me into the hiding spot, but didn't attack for some reason. I manage to run away again, they chase me, and then they fly away. I wait a little bit, go to leave oasis to get the mushrooms, and the dude showed up again, attacked me, chased me, then chills in oasis and sits and watches me. Anytime I left, he'd attack me until I went back to oasis and laid on my nest again. Dude only attacked when I left, which was strange. I needed water desperately, but the water in oasis was at zero so I went to get water elsewhere, and I'm attacked again (I found out this way that ghibli doesn't get affected by sickly water). He ended up flying away after me staying put for about ten minutes. I waited another twenty minutes of the dude being gone before I set out for more mushrooms (I even mudrolled). I was able to safely upgrade my nest to the fourth mut upgrade. Then I go out again for a few more mushrooms after mudrolling, and BRO FOUND ME AND CHASED ME AGAIN. I laid on my nest, and this dude was circling me, landing near me, and calling at me for a whole HOUR before he flew off again. I waited another hour and a half before I started trying to attempt to get more mushrooms, and thankfully, it seemed like the dude got bored and left.

I've been stalked by a clan before across servers, but this is the first time someone was actively lurking in the shadows, watching me by themselves. It was weird, and it was making me anxious, and I wanted to leave, but I had spent so much effort on that nest. I have NEVER been forced to stay in an area by someone. Normally when I'm chased, I'[m killed when I'm found but this guy didn't do that. He would sit there and wait for me to leave the oasis before coming after me and the oasis wasn;t even that crowded this time so he couldn't have been scared of the others, especially when I wasn't with everyone else. I was on the small space right above the mud pile.

I was my healer valk and started healing an angelic and they started attacking me and said they hated the healers, then I got chased by another valk and another flier for nothing?? if you didn't want healed, you could've said stop?? It didn't help that I was lagging so bad I couldn't even try running away, but why gang up on me for doing my job?? It made me so angry and confused because I have NEVER been attacked by a person for healing them. If they don't want to be healed, they use their words like an adult and request not to be healed. So is this a thing that's just happening now, or is this a one-time thing? If it's just gonna happen a bunch, I find that absolutely stupid. Also, why kill me? Obviously, if they said not to heal them and attacked me for it, I was going to leave them alone. Why kill me and make me waste 2 revives? Idk, I'm just really peeved over it. It makes no sense

Edit: I've been informed if the wardens rage and how it's kind of a healer rule to not heal wardens unless they give permission. Still, coming after me when I'm clearly getting away is not it and was uncalled for. My Valk has traits I grinder for and is in the second stage of veneration, I can't just let it die. A simple "Hey, please don't" or even a hot and an aggro would've been fine, but they sent two of their guys after me to kill me.

So, recently, I lost my cat. He was a week away from being 17, and he was my world. I knew the end was coming as he had been sick, but had been doing pretty well for a long while, so I had saved up about 2 weeks of vacation time for when the end would finally come. Well, one night, he just never got better after having a scare, so I made the very hard decision to have him euthanized. The decision itself had me crying for at least 3 hours that night, and the next day, we took him to the vet to ask if they could do it at my home, so he would be the most comfortable. It broke me. I texted my manager, explained what had happened, and got the rest of the week (3 days) and the whole next week off. That cat was my baby. The moms who worked with me would always include me in mom talk because my boy was my kid. I talked about him just like the moms talked about their kids.

When I came back to work, my district manager was there and was casting me a few weird looks. I figured he must've seen the schedule and was wondering why I was off for a week and a half. I completely expected him to come and ask, but he never did. He said he'd be back within the next few days and then left. I went to my manager and asked if he'd asked about my week off, and she said no and asked why. I told her that the district manager had been looking at me weirdly the whole time he was there, and thought maybe that was the reason. She simply shrugged and said he might ask me later.

Here's the thing about my district manager: He doesn't seem like the type to understand the death of an animal, like how it could affect someone, just like losing a family member. That's simply the vibe he gives off. Here's where the issue comes in: I told her if he asks, I'll tell him the truth, but if he tells me 'it's just a cat,' then that will be my last day. I had gotten comments on that when I made a Facebook post for the family friends to see that I wasn't friends with, and I cannot handle those kinds of comments because he wasn't 'just a cat'.

I thought nothing of telling her until the word got around about what I'd said, since one of my other coworkers heard it. I'd gotten a few of them saying that it was kind of a dick move to say such a thing because the store needed me. Apparently, the week that I was gone was awful, and people couldn't wait for me to come back because I was so quick with things. It got me wondering if what I said really was too much. I still stand by what I said. If anyone tells me 'it's just a cat,' I wouldn't be able to work with them or work for them. So, am I the asshole?

Edit: I realized the conversation between my manager and I wasn't described very well. My mind has been all over the place since his passing, so apologies. The whole conversation between her and I was civil and respectful. I wasn't exactly trying to threaten, just warn. I don't want to work under someone who has a lack of empathy. My district manager and I rarely ever speak, and the fact he was constantly looking at me with either an angry or confused face was a bit concerning to me. I have autism so I could very much be reading into it wrong, and I will take responsibility for it. On top of that, experience with management isn't exactly great. Thankfully, my current manager is pretty good and understanding. Also, my manager, during the conversation, was very understanding of the situation. We talked in her office with the door closed so I have no idea how my coworker heard unless they came to ask her a question and listened in, which is possible because certain coworkers tend to love the drama. I understand that I may be an asshole for jumping the gun, but I really wanted to warn her should it actually happen. If anything happens within the week, I'll update

So, I recently came back to the game after taking a 3 year break. I remember when Areis came out, and I wanted one. I still do. I've recently seen other role limited species, and I wanna get them. How do I even go about that? Is it pure luck to get into the same server as a content creator, or do I have to do something?

So I have a feral kora that has weight and damage. Ven 1 rn, and I leveled up damage. I'm not the best at pvp, and I recently just got back into the game after quitting. I'm going to try to get it to ven 5, but what should be leveled up the most? I was thinking just all damage, but I'm not sure, and I thought I'd ask for advice.