u/Embarrassed-Song3760

bit of a random one, but i sent something to a buyer and the order has been completed as they’ve collected it from the locker. the money has already been put into my account, but the buyer hasn’t responded to my message asking if the item is okay (they asked a lot of questions about it before buying so was a bit nervous they wouldn’t like it when it arrived) and haven’t left any feedback nearly three days later. does that mean it’s automatically positive feedback as there’s no way they could raise an issue with it now? i haven’t sent through lockers before so wasn’t sure how that works

i struggle really badly with bulimia and emotional binge eating, i’m trying my best to cut back on it and approach food more normally. but one thing i’m struggling with is how to tell when it’s a normal craving or a binge. for example, i want a cupcake, but that can very easily turn into a whole box plus buying more to do it again. i want ramen and sometimes that would make me binge, but didn’t today as i was able to hold back. how can i trust when i’m wanting something vs when i’m gonna lose control if i have it?

i’m UK based and currently training in drama school, with the plan of doing a PGCE and training to become a secondary/high school drama teacher. it seems like a dumb thing but my surname is one that a lot of kids made jokes/derivatives of growing up. being a young female, i feel i might have issues being taken seriously by some students as it is. can i informally change my surname/go by a different name for the purpose of teaching, or would that cause complications with employment and salary etc?

i’ve seen lots of posts about this impacting finals in america, but anyone else doing A levels and shitting themselves without canvas materials??

i’ve been taking lansoprazole on prescription as i have severe acid reflux that is really affecting my daily life quality. they’ve only just booked me in for an endoscopy after a year of asking for further investigation when blood tests and allergens all came back clean. i’ve seen online that lansoprazole can have negative health effects on kidney and liver function with long term usage and am feeling a bit anxious about it, but it’s the only thing that’s remotely helping at the moment. how long is considered ‘long term usage”?

i’m 18f and i kinda need to get a grip lmfao. i’m not objectively unconfident in the sense that i don’t dislike myself at all, i know i’m not perfect but i do my best to be good. the problem isn’t general confidence in myself, it’s how other people make me feel. one snide comment or someone not liking me (even if i don’t like them and truly value their opinion) really upsets me in a way i don’t really understand. i’d love to work in some sector of the entertainment industry someday which notoriously requires thick skin, and i just don’t know how i’ll get there. i’ve done the whole “see beauty in yourself”, “be true to yourself and find people who value that” etc but for some reason, not caring what other people think is the part that’s never clicked. i wish i could be harder to hurt.