u/Emotional-Web7813

Hello Men . As they show and expect in modern world that men should be vulnerable to their partner and share their feelings. I believed in this shit and tried being vulnerable. Later in every fights she used to bring up my past and vulnerability and when once she couldn't win an argument in fit of rage she shared it with people i was close with..

So my suggestion is if you want to share or be vulnerable do it only with people close to you mostly men because I feel woman can't keep secrets.

I got above thought because of situation with my mother and wife. My parents visit home only once a year that too for few weeks and whenever they were here they took care of my wife like laundry and cooking and stuff.

Suddenly when my mother was ill my wife refused any help and I took care of situation.

I know i shouldn't be expecting anything in return but then my mother didn't deserve this and I was also helpless imagine she is not getting decent treatment in her own house..

Over that I got threatened with false cases.

So does karna really work

2 years of marriage. I did everything my wife said as an experiment and also if I didn't do it i got silent treatment and no physical intimacy below are the things I agreed

1. Parents and we live separately

2. I have kept maid and cook for help

3. I take care of all the expenses

Still she complains I am not a good guy.

Secondly people say you have to be truthful to your wife you know what I tried that as well. And whatever i revealed were later used against me in fights and arguments.

I am currently planning for divorce and you know what I am getting threat of false cases. Did anyone face the same issue ?

I have been grey rocking my wife for 2 years now. She has refused intimacy so I stopped taking her out and messaging. We are basically in a dead emotionless relationship. Intake care of all the household needs and suddenly she stopped taunting and harassing me and is quiet have you faced this ?