17+ years and my avoidant partner and father of our child decided to cheat
I found proof that my partner has been cheating and trying to conceive with his lover. He’s been absent, he’s been going away on fictional business trips and this week on a fictional bachelor party. He was diagnosed with avoidance disorder last December and we had couple therapy, but he is back to cheating despite him getting aggressive and upset when I tell him that I don’t trust him and that he’s still with the lover. He even invited his lover over when I was away with our child. He doesn’t really take care of our son anymore and he doesn’t seem to rebuild trust and relationship he had with him. I wanted to give him a chance, but it’s over. I’m scared to leave and start a new life alone with a child, but I feel like I need it for my own sanity. I honestly have a hard time trusting men now.