u/Emotional_Snow_5365

I f20 and my boyfriend m22 have been having this issue constantly of what I should and shouldn't wear because he is uncomfortable with it. He discussed this with a female friend and she agreed with him and said I was in the wrong. For context i dress more alternative/scene I wear "skimpier" clothing personally I do not find the human body or nudity inherently sexual i also dont dress crazy. Recently our first issue/encounter with this disagreement was when we went to a huge music festival it was over 95 degrees so it was extremely hot excpeccilly with over 400,000 people. I wore short shorts wich had my butt out a little bit a lace came with a teal bra underneath a with fishnet top and a wolf hood. The short shorts was his issue. Later he was comfortable with this and kept reiterating he was being stupid and he felt better after seeing what people were wearing. I made a comment later about how I wanted to make an outfit out of a bathing suit 2 piece I had wich would be a non see through scrap tied around my waist almost like a skirt and some type of fishnet top with the same hood. He was comfortable with that at the time and said that outfit would probably look really good on me and even said he would want to maybe wear just his swimming shorts next time we went to a festival like that. Now after that talk with his friend me wearing a bathing suit outside of the pool is a non negotiable for him and i can never do that. AITAH for snapping back and defending MY BODY MY CHOICE??

My cat 7yr (Jinx) male neutered since he was about 6 months old has had an issue since a kitten with pooping in spots around the house, he stopped doing so after i had an automatic litter box but we had to move somewhere else after my nana died (i was living with her and about 16) so that litter box unfortunately got thrown away. He continued to use the bathroom on the floor for awhile but that wasnt out of the ordinary for him and i figured that was unfortunately the way he was wired. Fast forward to me getting my own place with my boyfriend, bestfriend and her boyfriend. We have lived together for about 2 years now almost 3 and my cat Jinx would poop over by our entrance wich was just normal for him at this point. He only pees in the litter box and will occasionally pee somewhere else but he has kinda stopped. Anyways, he has now all of a sudden became superrrrr Vocal like constantly meowing at me and now hes pooping on my couch?! Along with one of my snakes enclosure once. Hes also pooped in our kitchen. This is very out of the ordinary for him and i cant figure out whats wrong. Hes pooping 2 to 3 times a day, i dont know if its because i changed his food but now im trying a very high protein kibble mixed with the original fancy feast patte wet food, before this I had him on Nacho, Jinx, and iam's. Hes now on Thrive and that patte stuff. Can anyone please help me, im at a lost of what to do and I dont know whats wrong with my baby. He doesnt look like hes in pain ive seen the pain chart and he seems normal his personality just completely changed i guess? Just meowing all the time and a bit more aloof than he use to be.