Church and group prayer discredits Christianity
Christians often emphasise how their relationship with god is their own - that it's personal. Surely by creating churches and prayer groups discredits that idea?
For example, I'm religious (not any specific type of religion, I just think there's something out there but I don't know what) and I only pray when I'm alone in my room. I also haven't told anyone in person about this because it feels like I'd be downplaying the relationship by just saying I pray once in a while to something I can't even visualise or name.
It sort of makes me view Christianity (and other organised religions) as a facade. How can you share such a personal relationship with such a huge group of people so openly? How can you all agree to pray for the same thing? How can you pray for others? If your relationship with god is personal, then in my mind that means god is only going to help you directly - not others on your behalf.