Blocked my abuser

Blocked my abusers jailatm account. Served him divorce papers via sheriff to his cell. I feel good. But also bad because he has everything done for him after leaving kids and I homeless no vehicle no money. We had it all before him. Mixed feelings.

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u/EntrepreneurSad2183 — 2 days ago

Losing money car and home to absuser...

I left my abuser... before all this I had employment, car, money and home. He wrecked my vehicles, left us homeless and with no money except debt he forced me to have.... im feeling so hopeless and isolated with 3 littles and one is a baby. He's stirring in jail feeling no remorse with no consequences just a week after I left him but its so unfair.

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u/EntrepreneurSad2183 — 3 days ago

What are the odds that an manipulative meth addict who has a long-standing pattern of lying, coercion, betrayal, financial abuse, and instability—will achieve lasting recovery and become a consistently safe, honest, emotionally healthy partner

It's my husband... he did try last time he was in jail. He got out and was wonderful. We got married and months later started displaying all the same behaviors again. His drug abuse was intermittent rather then unhinged like before. So it was believable. I noticed he had a hookup app downloaded the month of our miscarriage. The day I left he instantly unblocked and began talking to the girl he cheated on me with while pregnant with our child. He also started drinking and using meth eratically and obviously. He went to jail 2 weeks later. I now have his phone. He downloaded tinder the day I left due to him making me and the kids homeless. He promised to repay me money but spent it on himself. And had about 3 girls he was trying to create a romantic obsession love with while trying to get back with me. I've sent him letters and proof to jail, he just has apologetic one liners and sometimes "im begging you to please let me change" im intellectually and physically out of his league, not full of myself its just the truth. I know he does love me in a twisted way. Has anybody been in this situation and had success?

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u/EntrepreneurSad2183 — 4 days ago

What are the odds that a manipulative meth addict who has a long-standing pattern of lying, coercion, betrayal, financial abuse, and instability will achieve lasting recovery and become a consistently safe, honest, emotionally healthy partner?

It's my husband... he did try last time he was in jail. He got out and was wonderful. We got married and months later started displaying all the same behaviors again. His drug abuse was intermittent rather than unhinged like before. So it was believable. I noticed he had a hookup app downloaded the month of our miscarriage. The day I left he instantly unblocked and began talking to the girl he cheated on me with while pregnant with our child. He also started drinking and using meth erratically and obviously. He went to jail 2 weeks later. I now have his phone. He downloaded Tinder the day I left due to him making me and the kids homeless. He promised to repay me money but spent it on himself. And had about 3 girls he was trying to create a romantic obsession love with while trying to get back with me. Ive sent him letters and proof to jail, he just has apologetic one liners and sometimes "im begging you to please let me change" im intellectually and physically out of his league, not full of myself its just the truth. I know he does love me in a twisted way. Has anybody been in this situation and had success?

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u/EntrepreneurSad2183 — 4 days ago