u/EnvironmentalWin6342

It’s too damn hot to get my bike out now but I still want to be out and about and be active. Anywhere to rent kayaks to try before I dive in head first and get my own?

I’m 50/50 with my 3 year old daughter’s mom. No court involvement, it’s just what we agreed on when we split almost 3 years ago, at this point coparent wise we’re like 2 best friends that just happen to have a daughter. While we were together I paid all of the daycare and insured her, so just to make it simpler I have continued to do that.

I make 76k a year, mom makes 60k a year. I pay for everything outside the homes (daycare, insurance, clothes etc) essentially if it is not under her immediate roof, she doesn’t pay for anything.

Mom is HORRIBLE with money, it’s about 70% of the reason things ended. Lately she’s been telling me “I’m behind on WiFi, I’m behind on phone bill, groceries are high, I’m almost falling behind on rent” I can tell she’s basically asking me for money, but between $980 daycare and $300 a month in insurance I feel like I do enough and that’s things she should handle.

On one hand I have someone telling me “you should pay those so your daughter can have those things at both houses” but guess where she has everything she needs and more, my house, send her to my house more if you can’t handle your things.

Thoughts? How should I feel about this?