What's going on when they're drunk?
I currently stay in one of the cottages of a Filipino family with whom I have a great relationship. We always cook and eat together.
Tonight they were visited by some of their relatives whom I didn't know yet. They started to drink their gin and soon after one of these guys whom I never met before ended up straight in my face all the time, telling me he wants to be my friend, keeps grabbing my hand and not letting go any more, keeps touching me the way I don't like to be touched by a stranger and making me hella uncomfortable.
After disturbing me long enough with the usual repetitive questions, he then went on to try to convince me that I'm a "spy" or an "Interpol", whatever that means to them and kept pressing me, trying to force a "confession" out of me. The sad thing is also they everyone around finds this behavior completely normal. Just absolutely weird.
I had to leave early. That's what always happens when there is some of these drunken weirdos around. I'm forced to leave immediately. They won't ever let go of me that's how obsessed they are. I'm not looking for an altercation either since I'm only a guest here and I'm apparently the only one who finds that weird. Don't they have any shame?