u/Equivalent_Cloud_554

AITAH for telling my teacher not to hold my artwork like that and walking away afterwards?

I (f) have two art teachers. One of them often holds my artwork especially while showing me my mistakes. While I completely understand that, he always holds the parts that have been shaded when there is an obvious blank space.

Today he was holding the drawing at a spot that was deeply shaded. I then told him "Please don't touch my drawing right there." He gets really upset and calls me "too sensitive", "too much", "trouble", and more. The other art teacher, is also telling me at the same time about "How do you expect him to gonna teach?", "Every other student lets him hold their artwork!", so both of them are just attacking me when all I asked was for him to not hold the artwork in the specific spot! I did not raise my voice, nor did I say much back I just nodded sarcastically at the table.

Then when my dad came to pick me up he started complaining about it but at the same time saying how "its understandable". I listened for about 5 minutes then when I thought the convo was over I turned around to walk to the car. My dad then called me back and dug into how I didn't even say goodbye.

Maybe I am too sensitive I don't know. But either way I hate that word, I hate how people use it as a derogative term when really it isn't. I'm super upset about this because a teacher shouldn't be doing that, and hes about 60 years old so i would expect you to have better control over your emotions than a highschooler! Am I the asshole for walking away without saying goodbye?

Update: My dad just came up and said he wanted to talk. He then started defending my art teacher and saying how it was all just "lost in translation". My art teacher is from China, I speak Chinese aswell fairly fluently. My dad started talking about how he probably didn't understand what those words meant. WELL IF YOU DONT FREAKING UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY MEAN THEN DONT FREAKING USE THEM! There is no reason a teacher shouldn't be trying to tell a student that they are too sensitive in any fucking language. I told him to leave me alone because I was already crying. I told him to get out. He then started yelling at me to not talk to him like that. When I get older I want to be on low contact with my family very much. but that is most likely my emotions speaking.​

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u/Equivalent_Cloud_554 — 15 days ago

AITBF for telling my art teacher not to touch my artwork?

I (f) have two art teachers. One of them often holds my artwork especially while showing me my mistakes. While I completely understand that, he always holds the parts that have been shaded when there is an obvious blank space.

Today he was holding the drawing at a spot that was deeply shaded. I then told him "Please don't touch my drawing right there." He gets really upset and calls me "too sensitive", "too much", "trouble", and more. The other art teacher, is also telling me at the same time about "How do you expect him to gonna teach?", "Every other student lets him hold their artwork!", so both of them are just attacking me when all I asked was for him to not hold the artwork in the specific spot! I did not raise my voice, nor did I say much back I just nodded sarcastically at the table.

Maybe I am too sensitive I don't know. But either way I hate that word, I hate how people use it as a derogative term when really it isn't. I'm super upset about this because a teacher shouldn't be doing that, and hes about 60 years old so i would expect you to have better control over your emotions than a highschooler! Anyways am I the butt face?

Update: My dad just came up and said he wanted to talk. He then started defending my art teacher and saying how it was all just "lost in translation". My art teacher is from China, I speak Chinese aswell fairly fluently. My dad started talking about how he probably didn't understand what those words meant. WELL IF YOU DONT FREAKING UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY MEAN THEN DONT FREAKING USE THEM! There is no reason a teacher shouldn't be trying to tell a student that they are too sensitive in any fucking language. I told him to leave me alone because I was already crying. I told him to get out. He then started yelling at me to not talk to him like that. When I get older I want to be on low contact with my family very much. but that is most likely my emotions speaking.​

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u/Equivalent_Cloud_554 — 15 days ago

So im not 100% sure but I believe I subluxated my scapula from trying to open a tub of cream cheese... this is so funny to write out lol! How can I tell if it is a subluxation? For context I am suspecting POTS and some sort of connective tissue disorder, this stuff happens fairly often but never in this area.

Here is what I have been feeling/felt: during it i felt a really sharp dull and throbbing pain under my scapula and kinda beneath it. The pain wasn't crazy 4/10 but everyones pain scale is different lol. Its been two days and I have experienced a lot of winging and pain reaching my arms past a certain point. It also hurts without movement so yay. No its not a rib subluxation it doesnt get much worse when I take a deep breath.

Any advice would be wonderful thank you!

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u/Equivalent_Cloud_554 — 22 days ago

Hi, I've been told I suck at storytelling so ill try my best, sorry for any grammar errors or punctuation issues. IF YOU DONT WANT TO READ THE BACKSTORY SKIP TO PARAGRAPH 4!

I liked a guy (lets call him A), knew his friend (lets call him B because hes a bitch), got his friend's number and his friend told the guy that I liked him. Yes apparently that's his definition of a wingman.

The guy thought I was stalking him because I accidentally found his mom while looking at surgical residents. He told everyone I was stalking him (i have proof I wasnt).

Well now comes these past few weeks. B and another friend have been basically bullying me. Yelling daily at me "OMG IS THAT [Iinsert A's name]!" And making threats like "if you look in this direction one more time B will throw [something I didn't hear]" and the funny thing, 90% of the time B isnt even saying this directly to me.

So im not going to get bullied by someone who cant even talk face to face with me! And to the part the title is from. I put B's number into multiple insurances companies asking for a quote on life insurance. Apparently you cant have more than 19 kids according to this one website that said "you should have between 1 and 19" when I put 23. I also signed him up for holy water and a tour of the scientology building! Hopefully they will sell his phone number to more 3rd parties and hopefully they will continuously spam him from multiple different numbers! I also found his address.

I would like to not hurt any of his family member's because they are not to blame! So most likely I wont tell a realtor that he wants to sell his home.

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u/Equivalent_Cloud_554 — 27 days ago