Do they love me?
Hello I’m 19 mtf dating 22 male/non binary we have been together for nearly 2 months which obviously isn’t very long but that’s why I’m not sure how to handle this situation. At the start he was very kind and loving we saw each other about once a week. He is quite busy, as he now has a new job 12 hour days 3-4 days a week, plus school and a theatre company (doesn’t make much money from) but now after only a while I feel like the butterflies are gone he usually only calls when he’s walking to work or home aka never when he has anything else to do and he never tells me he loves me unless I say it first sometimes he doesn’t even respond. I currently work part time and have more free time until I start school so try to accommodate his schedule, for example he missed my birthday for a health reason and is off this Saturday and offered to take me to dinner so I spoke with my manger to get the day off, now he says he may need to go to school all day I asked about Tuesday and he told me he had to do assignments. It’s been three weeks since I last saw him and I miss him a lot I understand he is busy and has health problems but it hurts that I just don’t seem to be a priority. I do have anxiety and this is my first relationship so maybe I’m over thinking it? We are both autistic aswell so it’s really hard to communicate he has had some and past relationships which also makes it hard to move around. I just see my siblings and friends with their partners and I guess it just hurts because I miss him and what his affection. He never responds to my texts or questions at what point do I cut my loss dating while trans is already so hard and every time he’s nice or makes me giggle I just can’t imagine another person.