How do you tell if someone is being genuine or just manipulating you?
Long story short I feel like a few members of my own family do this. For the record I don't think it's some psycho thing I just think they know me, how I'll react and they take advantage of it.
I don't necessarily mind this behavior, if x family member said
"Hey let's go on vacation and I'll pay for it and we'll have a great time!"
On the surface that may sound fine but then they blow up about everything and act totally selfish constantly like it's a one person vacation. BUT they paid for it so if you DARE say a word you're a villain?
The worst part is I agree partly with that. But back to the main issue. How do you tell the difference.
Because people have their own issues, triggers etc so you gotta be understanding. So is it me, them? A combo? How do you know?