Waiting to try because of chronic pain (is this too niche?)
My husband and I planned on trying this July (I’m 29F turning 30 this July, husband is 30) but I have been diagnosed with hypermobility spectrum disorder and hypermobile ehlers danlos. I have a bugling disc which is causing me so much pain since October 2025, Im going a bit crazy, I do solidcore for strength training, I eat super clean, I go to physical therapy twice a week, I do dry needling, I get chiropractic care, I do saunas and cold plunges weekly. I truly don’t know what else to do, the pain still persists. I cry all the time at the thought of delaying our family or never having one because of my chronic pain.
I get Botox for my migraines which are a result of my hypermobility and my neurologist already said he’s cleared me to continue Botox whilst pregnant which is such a relief, but my back pain from the bulging disc sometimes sends me spiraling. I guess I’m posting to see if anyone else is in a similar boat, I want a family so badly, but I’m in constant pain and trying to cure it 24/7, I wonder if it’s meant for me at this point