u/Euphoric_Moon_6528

So, I have a crush with this guy I met in an online forum and we got along very well and everything, I think he followed on IG last year, we have been nice friends and I felt crushed by him when I first saw his photo and he also seemed very cool. But I have a long distance boyfriend too, we have 4 years together and I have felt like we had some problems, not dramas or anything but I feel like I don't feel connected and I feel like we talk very simple, not always but ultimately I think it has been like that. I do feel loved tho, but I feel like he is disconnected or sum. He has said that he has been a bit tired and stuff but, sometimes I have felt like that too but I always made sure to communicate what was going on with me and what happened when I didn't respond and stuff.

On the other side with the crush, idk if I have been overthinking his reposts on IG, cause he usually reposts memes, phrases or sum. He had a girlfriend and now is his ex, they broke up like 4 months ago, but he has said before that, to overcome a relationship, he would wait 1 o 2 years. But I found 2 reposts in which idk if he might be dating someone or he has a crush on someone, or idk if it's just humour. The first repost said something like: when you ain't got a car but she wants you to come over, and the guy in the video gets a magic card. I guess it's like a reference from an anime that he likes. I know that he has a car tho, but yeah. The other post said that: Date idea, we play chess but every time I blunder we kiss, and the post has an anime girl in it. So, I have played with him before in a chess app, but he also has played with another girl but I know she is in a different country, so yeah.

What would you recommend me to do? Am I overthinking his posts or sum?

So, I know it's not Saturday yet to make this question but I was trying to find some clarity on this. You see, I have a friend who is ISTP 9w1 I guess... and he recently broke up with her ex, like three months ago. The thing is that I don't know if he is dating someone. We both are friends but it would shock me if he would do that, also, when he broke up with his ex, he started sending me reels and memes and stuff, which he rarely did while he was in the relationship. So I would send reels back and stuff, and we even played together in an online game. But this 2 weeks he hasn't send me any reels or memes, I have been sending him some and he responds and everything seems to be fine. Then I decided to stalk his IG and it seems that he is still heartbroken and stuff, but sometimes he shares things like: when I aint got no car but she wants you to come over. But that reel is like a reference to an anime that he likes, I guess it's a meme. So, yall think he is dating someone or basically is just a thing he does? Sorry if some words don't make any sense, my first language is not English:P

I have a friend that is ISTP, i think he is 9w1 but, I have seen that he is VERY fixated with philosophy or things like philosophy phrases. I think he might like Camus, Sartre and Nietzche. He usually posts A LOT about it, he really LOVES it, hehe. It's not a bad thing tho, but I was just curious if ISTPs loved reading philosophy or liked to reflect and discuss with other people about philosophy topics. Certainly, I don't know if he had read the books but, I know he has read Herman Hesse. Thank you:D