u/Evening_Recipe_6641 — reddlx

Mais of honor help!

I have never worn dresses before and I am the maid of honor for my best friend. She picked out this dress for me and she absolutely loves it and thinks I look great. I feel awful but I feel so ugly in it. I have very pronounced hip dips and i feel it looks wonky. I still have to have it fitted properly. But what are yalls thoughts? She doesn’t want me having an a line because that is her style dress so very understandable! But advice would be great and what I could fix or if I should convince her of another style.

u/Evening_Recipe_6641 — 8 days ago

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Mais of honor help

Hi yall. I am extremely stressed. The wedding is in two months and I hate every dress. This is the dress the bride really likes on me, color and style, and I don’t know. I’m very insecure about my figure. I have awful hip dips and I wanted others advice. Should I keep looking or settle for this one? I would still have to get this one fitted properly. I just personally think my hip dips ruin every single dress I’ve tried. I don’t want flowy dress because it’s too similar to the brides dress style. Any advice would be greatly appreciated 🥲

This has just been very difficult because I never worn a dress before and now that I’m trying them on they just don’t seem to work with my figure and I even had a worker at one the the dress stores tell me that as welll.

u/Evening_Recipe_6641 — 8 days ago

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I hate to admit it but I miss my best friend who I cut contact with. We’ve been friends since kindergarten. We are 26 now and I cut contact 8 months ago. Once in a while I stare at my phone and hope she reaches out. I wish she did but at this point it’s clear she won’t.

When I made the decision to cut her off, her boyfriend of 3 months told me I was just sex to men and yelled at me. She was there for it. Acknowledged how awful it was. She pretended like she would end things but found excuses not to. I tried to explain how he hurt me but unfortunately she cared more about keeping the relationship.

I was super angry at the time. I didn’t know how to express my sadness so I was just mad, like fuck her who cares, dumb bitch will see his true colors eventually, she’s an awful person. But I’ve stayed in therapy and realized I was never mad at her. Just so deeply sad and hurt that she couldn’t see how this man hurt me and took his side. After over a decade of friendship. I cared about her so much. I want her to reach out. I’ve had awful breakups but this is worse. I really thought she was my ride or die, lifelong friend.

Now I’m lonely. I have people in my life. My boyfriend, all my work friends, gym friends, my closest male friend who I’ve known for 8 years. But they can’t replace the sister bond I had with her. I love my friend who I’ve known for 8 years but he’s a guy lol it’s different than a girl best friend. I don’t have that comfortable connection that I shared with her. How we could truly just be ourselves with each other and act like dumbasses with no judgement. Knowing each other since before we could spell, we know everything about each other’s life. Her family was my family, mine hers.

I still hope she’ll reach out and we can fix this. But I know she’s still with that guy who belittled me. I know she’s cares more about him than me. Makes be second guess myself all the time. Did she even like me? Was she just waiting for someone she liked more to come around to get rid of me? Maybe. And I guess that’s ok. I’m just really down today and I’m allowing myself to feel the sadness that’s built up about this situation. Thanks for reading my vent.

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u/Evening_Recipe_6641 — 25 days ago