u/Excellent-Device7562

Hey guys I'm thinking I'm going to ed at Tufts. I would like to know how you guys liked it. I'm especially interested in the teachers. Do they care? I want to know about how merit works at the school. Do professors care if you cheat, or do they keep you honest? I know not everyone is going to be a stand up person, I honestly just want to know if the professors care enough to try and stop it.

I 17m have had a crush on this girl (16f) and have been trying to talk to her for a while. My friend who is 16m is super tall and a pretty handsome dude. I was outside one day and saw that he was sitting alone alone on a bench and she just walks up to him and starts talking to him. Eventually she just sits down next time him and talked to him for like 20 minutes. Later I was talking to him and he tells me this all happened. He was like I think she likes me and she told me about her entire family and all these things about her. But the problem and the thing that bothers me, is this guy has no interest in her whatsoever. Every girl goes up to him and starts talking to him he doesn't even have to do anything. I guess this sounds like a jealous rant, which it somewhat is, but I just want to know what I can do to have a chance with a girl. I've been working on my confidence and been trying to improve little things about myself. Thanks for the help