u/Excellent-Pin1831

im on the breach of ending our relationship. it’s not what i want but im over it. I will go to my gf about something sensitive. like my living situation or something about my abusive family. and most times she will understand. but sometimes she can be very cold and have no empathy for my situation. she will hold me accountable but she will be harsh speaking about it with me. like last night I was venting to her and she was a little upset because I stormed out of her house. that’s was childish on my part.

but during that situation, I go on to explain why I’m upset and I tell her why I didn’t wanna go home. instead of slightly understanding, she minimizes my feelings and says “you’re always complaining bro”. “if it isn’t one thing it’s another”. “you live in such a negative state all the time, I try to help you but you stick your head back in the sand”. im trying to fix that badly. I don’t wanna be negative all the time. I try to find the positive in every situation. the one time I slip up and vent to her about something, she tells me that im complaining too much and im being negative.

last night she then goes on the say “i help you move her to my moms place, and you’re being ungrateful bro”. I am thankful for everything she has done. it never goes unnoticed. I don’t try to complain and stay grateful. but the one time I complain about something I don’t like, she gets mad and calls me ungrateful, negative, complainer. she’s always so harsh during our disagreements sometimes and I have so much empathy towards her when she’s upset about something. I give her empathy on how she’s feeling and then I help try and find solutions. wtf do I do bro? i don’t wanna break up but im seriously at a breaking point if this cannot change. I brought it up casually once and she understood but she still does it bro

I don’t know what to do. I am residing in florida. I apparently missed a letter in the mail. I’m practically homeless and missed the letter. they said I didn’t do some kind of orientation for a fl employment website. I called them, they gave me a website but I don’t seen any orientation modules to do. that’s the only thing I have to do to keep my ebt. I seriously can’t find it and I have until May 21st or they are cutting them. I think it sucks because I’m practically homeless with no money and I can’t find the modules on the website. does anyone know what this is or could help me?

I have come to a conclusion that i have interstitial cystitis. I don’t want to self diagnose but i have been in a flare up for four months. I don’t wanna unpack, I don’t wanna go play basketball like i used to, I dread going to work. i just no longer wanna feel like im having to run to the bathroom every 10 minutes. i got a urinalysis and a culture, they are both negative. my dr told me it could be my A1c of 7.1. but i don’t think that’s high enough to fuel it by itself. this all started from a uti that was inaccurately treated since i was on vacay. will i ever find something to hep me feel better? I can’t even go to the doctor because im 6 hrs away. my health insurance doesn’t work in florida. my only option would be to go to the er to have them do scans and ultrasounds. i just want this to go away. azo only helps for like two days then stops working. im stressing myself out thinking somethings wrong with my kidneys when my doctor told me all my testing looks fined. someone please give me any advice. i just help healing this, im doing it all alone. my gf cant fathom how i feel because she’s not experiencing it.

im in the process of looking for job. im scared that my bladder will affect my ability to work. I dont wanna not be able to work. I just wanna rot in the couch because i constantly have to pee.

hello, im a 20 yr old in florida. Im homeless and now im temporarily staying with my partners mom. I don’t use any of their food like that. I have no income rn because it’s been hard to find a job. I applied for ebt recently and had the interview. they said im eligible for expedited benefits. it’s been like 2 days. do you guys think ill get approved? I really need them

I’ve gone to the dr to get lab work for this issue. she said it’s because my A1c is back up to 7.1. it was at 5.9 the it went up to 6.5. It is now 7.1, I can’t lie ever since I met my gf, I have been eating like shit. and I stopped powerlifting. idk what to do bro. my dr upped my dosage but im still experiencing this bro. she said my pee was clean and I don’t have a uti. she said this is because my sugar is uncontrolled now. im trying to get it back down. I don’t want to feel like this forever, how do I stop this? should I ask for meds until my sugar is back down to relieve the peeing?

**update**

thank you guys so much for all the advice. i have been depressed as shit due to my abusive parents and becoming homeless. I got off track with my gf with eating. I know that now I have to get back on my shit and lock tf in if I want this to go away. my dr already upped my metformin to 1000mg twice a day.