Hi everyone, Iam looking for some books, how to get better at my social skills, talking, presenting my self, talking at presentations etc..
Iam trying to get better at my small talks, interacting with others etc.
thanks for every recommendation in advance
I don’t know what’s been happening to me lately, but my bad days are starting to outweigh the good ones. It takes so little for me to have my entire day ruined and to lose my good mood. Like today, I just slept badly, and suddenly thoughts started running through my head about how I regret every decision I’ve ever made, how I regret not jumping off that bridge back then and instead “giving up.”
I think about death very often—whether there’s even any point to my life, whether I should keep living or end it. I can’t enjoy the things I used to love anymore. I’m falling back into the same patterns as always… I don’t want to just survive, I want to live.
Even now, when I had an opportunity for a positive change in my life—a job—it’s not working out, and it looks like it won’t happen, just like everything else in my miserable life. I also started talking to a woman. We went on a date, and I deeply regret ever talking to her, regret that I ever messaged her. Why? I don’t even know myself.
Something hasn’t been right with me for quite a long time, and I don’t know what to do about it anymore… I can talk about it for hours, but in the end I’ll just be feeling sorry for myself.
Hi, I’m 22M and Iam going on a date with a girl that’s younger then me, that’s my first date ever, and I really like her and I hope so she does too. I know she likes flowers, especially tulips. We are going on a coffee date, maybe even some food after, and I was thinking about buying her small bouquet from Lidl, they have pretty flowers in my opinion. We have been talking for a long time and couldn’t meet sooner because of work. I would appreciate any advice in this, cause I don’t want to make things awkward or do something stupid. So thanks in advance for everything.
Edit: I would like to add some details to this and thanked to anyone who gave me they feedback and support, I appreciate it very much
So how much younger ? A few months
Would I seem desperate? That’s one of mine concerns of this, as I said before I don’t want to make things awkward or some… also I know a lot of girls would appreciate flowers on date as some of you said or by mine friends
When should I give her a flowers? I don’t have many options. Why? Because I will be not picking her up, we will meet in a city close to both of us (15 mins of public transport) so I wanted to give it to her when we meet, something small so it wound not be in her way to much, or I will carry it for her I don’t know… I was thinking about this option don’t worry guys Iam just unsure about it cause first date ever uk…
Some information we meet on dating app a few years back, talked and meet once, and it didn’t go well after thing (meet or date was good, we agreed on it this time when we started again talking) we stopped talking, I was a bit weird and immature, a lot immature… and now, to this day I don’t know why we started talking again, but Iam glad for it, and that’s why I want to give her flowers and show her that I like her/im interested in her… and as some of you said, that’s point of dating, show interest I really liked this though
Last words if some is more interested in my story dm (;
Once more thanks to anyone who reads this and give me their thoughts Ɛ>