Found videos on boyfriends phone after he said it wasn’t him [26F] [28M]

me and my fiance had a discussion about watching porn, we both have in the past when we were single and it continued in the start of our relationship but it was negatively affecting me and I stopped watching, it has been years now and I discovered he is still watching it. I told him before I agree to marry you I do not want you watching that anymore, our compromise was making our own videos he can use, however I happened to go to his app and found multiple saved and watched videos of it again. He claims his twitter was hacked and it was not him. Does that sound like a logical excuse to anyone who uses twitter for videos? I feel like I am being lied to and he is offended I do not trust him but if it’s your account and your phone I do not see why someone else would hack your account solely for the purpose of watching videos.

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u/Exotic_Zucchini7440 — 10 days ago
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I don’t think I want to be a mother anymore

after my first experience with pregnancy, I realized how horrible it would be. And everything on social media and the American work & health system has reinforced that being a mother is horrible. my first time I was pregnant for 5 weeks with suspected HG before getting an abortion. within those 5 weeks I had already become anorexic from not being able to hold any water or food down, I felt like I was truly dying and I don’t regret my choice. The American economy & health care system is not fit for mothers, it only serves to make our life & health worse.. at this point I fully believe I will die from pregnancy and/or labor and risking my life for a child isn’t worth it to me. i married my partner with the intention of having children, because I was naive many years ago, but now I am severely turned off by the idea. I’m worried about his reaction to this and he doesn’t understand my concerns simply because he is a man and he won’t get it. evil runs rampant and is targeting children in this world now and I don’t feel I can adequately protect a child from the evil, it’s too pervasive

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u/Exotic_Zucchini7440 — 1 month ago

I don’t think I want to be a mother anymore

after my first experience with pregnancy, I realized how horrible it would be. And everything on social media and the American work & health system has reinforced that being a mother is horrible. my first time I was pregnant for 5 weeks with suspected HG before getting an abortion. within those 5 weeks I had already become anorexic from not being able to hold any water or food down, I felt like I was truly dying and I don’t regret my choice. The American economy & health care system is not fit for mothers, it only serves to make our life & health worse.. at this point I fully believe I will die from pregnancy and/or labor and risking my life for a child isn’t worth it to me. i married my partner with the intention of having children, because I was naive many years ago, but now I am severely turned off by the idea. I’m worried about his reaction to this and he doesn’t understand my concerns simply because he is a man and he won’t get it. evil runs rampant and is targeting children in this world now and I don’t feel I can adequately protect a child from the evil, it’s too pervasive

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u/Exotic_Zucchini7440 — 1 month ago