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First of all never pay him full amount before hand , Never Ever , This is not uk or US where you pay upfront , even if you are on bykea , riksha , CAB , Darzi etc.

If you Pay full amount upfornt , he will begin stalling and his motivation to do work will be gone as Pakistani Darzioyon ki philosophy is simple , If you have caught the fish in net then ignore that fish and search for more fish in blue ocean.

If they are stalling you for mnths then instead of fighting Always Dangle the carrot Infront of them first , My mom does this all time , she gives Her dress to get done by Darzi and she says them , my friends also like your work and there are more work lined up for you kindly complete my project first so that I can see the quality of your work.

Once your Project is done ghost them , as A snake will sting you again if you give it another opportunity

always do bank transfer or pay by card , never pay cash . If it is big project involve legal team as well.

First of all never pay him full amount before hand , Never Ever , This is not uk or US where you pay upfront , even if you are on bykea , riksha , CAB , Darzi etc.

If you Pay full amount upfornt , he will begin stalling and his motivation to do work will be gone as Pakistani Darzioyon ki philosophy is simple , If you have caught the fish in net then ignore that fish and search for more fish in blue ocean.

If they are stalling you for mnths then instead of fighting Always Dangle the carrot Infront of them first , My mom does this all time , she gives Her dress to get done by Darzi and she says them , my friends also like your work and there are more work lined up for you kindly complete my project first so that I can see the quality of your work.

Once your Project is done ghost them , as A snake will sting you again if you give it another opportunity

always do bank transfer or pay by card , never pay cash . If it is big project involve legal team as well.

1.Always Speak English With Accent , I cant stress this Enough , or Speak Burger urdu , Especially If you are going to university or in any Government building. Trust Me Speaking English will Open Many doors for you and Government official will respect you. English Privilege is a thing

2.Always Remember this Never Ever Badmouth yourself or your Family Even in the company of Friends and Colleagues , It will be used against you , For Example , "Never say ke mera baap buhut kanjoos he yaar , mujhe pesey nhi deta " , Now you will be labelled as Kanjoos forever . You Have just tarnished your Image.

3.Never say " Yaar halat buhut kharab heen " , "AAJ kull Doctors buhut ghareeb heen " People Don't want to Hear rants , Sell What people Want to hear , Nobody Is looking for a miser , Nobody wants to Befriend a miserable poor and self hating fellow .

4.Remember this People are always Judging Even Your friends , especially yur friends , Always dress Good in the company of men , Groom yourself , Your nails , Wear Deodorant roll on and good perfume

5.If you have groomed yourself properly then next step is to groom your thoughts , Always do virtue signaling this is how in 21st century people differentiate a Jahil From Suljhe huwe gharane ka Larka , For example write down following sentences for yourself Even you Don't know what that means

"We need to Stop animal Abuse , Stop killing Dogs " even if you have Been bit by dog on the way , It will show you are humane .

"We need to end poverty , We should help the poor and Tip generously to FOOD panda riders " It will show you are humble dude and caring

6. Promote Women rights and Independence in company of females and Abstain from Discussing women in company of MEN , Never reveal your true beliefs , no Matter what they are , Enforce whatever you feel good in your home but Infront of others , BE cool and promote Equal rights for women , It will show that you come from privileged society , of course rich people will never understand that A lone women walking Alone in Low urban centers is never Safe , They Live In DHA and gated societies they will not understand the True brutal reality of Middle class women.

7.Once you roam with Rich People remember this for them everything is A game of Status , Even their compliments are Back handed Compliments , they will never outright Tell you what they think honestly about you . Ladies from HIGH class do it a lot , even my mom and her friends do it a lot and they are typical high class ladies , REAL Example " Tum per yeh dress tu buhut acha lugg rha hee , ISS umer me bhi tum itni khobsorat lug rhi ho, Aap ne apney aap ko Chaar bchon ke bawajood bhi itna maintain kiya huwa he Amna Baji " Le Amna be thinking it is compliment but She is being told She old now , consider the word baji at end and how the speaker changed the wording from tum to aap to hammer her point and Make herself younger and Amna older.

Another Example A High class Male corpo telling his PEER on same level " YAAR tum tu pehley se buhut improve ho gye ho, Congratulations on winning the presentation , Keep on working harder " He is basically telling you were not good previously and now somehow you have won this competition you still need improvement , Basically he is trying to act superior.

8. Always keep on smiling , learn some jokes , quotes and comebacks for every situation , Never crack joke at anyones expense , They might laugh with the group but one day they will Exact their revenge , people fragile yo.

9. Cognitive Dissonance : Stop Criticizing someone From playing politics to get ahead , Do whatever is necessary to Advance forward , You see someone playing Office politics to get ahead and improve their salary , people and peers will judge , like how he is rolling like a carpet infront of boss , he has no dignity , If you judge someone for this then when time will come for you to play politics you wont be able to do that bcuz of cognitive dissonance as you have judged this behaviour is beneath you , therefore you will get stuck with low salary .

Same case Happens with so Called Anti Rich critics , Yaar haram ka pesa hee , Humen pesey se kiya lagey , Pesa tu ani jani cheez he , Everyone is Corrupt, that Doctor is incompentent , Stay away from such people and Such behaviour as this type of person is too shy and incompetent to jump at the opportunity to advance in life . He thinks being rich is crime and he likes to live in his Mediocre life , they fail to take risk , they become risk averse and eventually stop Playing the game of Social heirarchy

1.Always Speak English With Accent , I cant stress this Enough , or Speak Burger urdu , Especially If you are going to university or in any Government building. Trust Me Speaking English will Open Many doors for you and Government official will respect you. English Privilege is a thing

2.Always Remember this Never Ever Badmouth yourself or your Family Even in the company of Friends and Colleagues , It will be used against you , For Example , "Never say ke mera baap buhut kanjoos he yaar , mujhe pesey nhi deta " , Now you will be labelled as Kanjoos forever . You Have just tarnished your Image.

3.Never say " Yaar halat buhut kharab heen " , "AAJ kull Doctors buhut ghareeb heen " People Don't want to Hear rants , Sell What people Want to hear , Nobody Is looking for a miser , Nobody wants to Befriend a miserable poor and self hating fellow .

4.Remember this People are always Judging Even Your friends , especially yur friends , Always dress Good in the company of men , Groom yourself , Your nails , Wear Deodorant roll on and good perfume

5.If you have groomed yourself properly then next step is to groom your thoughts , Always do virtue signaling this is how in 21st century people differentiate a Jahil From Suljhe huwe gharane ka Larka , For example write down following sentences for yourself Even you Don't know what that means

"We need to Stop animal Abuse , Stop killing Dogs " even if you have Been bit by dog on the way , It will show you are humane .

"We need to end poverty , We should help the poor and Tip generously to FOOD panda riders " It will show you are humble dude and caring

6. Promote Women rights and Independence in company of females and Abstain from Discussing women in company of MEN , Never reveal your true beliefs , no Matter what they are , Enforce whatever you feel good in your home but Infront of others , BE cool and promote Equal rights for women , It will show that you come from privileged society , of course rich people will never understand that A lone women walking Alone in Low urban centers is never Safe , They Live In DHA and gated societies they will not understand the True brutal reality of Middle class women.

7.Once you roam with Rich People remember this for them everything is A game of Status , Even their compliments are Back handed Compliments , they will never outright Tell you what they think honestly about you . Ladies from HIGH class do it a lot , even my mom and her friends do it a lot and they are typical high class ladies , REAL Example " Tum per yeh dress tu buhut acha lugg rha hee , ISS umer me bhi tum itni khobsorat lug rhi ho, Aap ne apney aap ko Chaar bchon ke bawajood bhi itna maintain kiya huwa he Amna Baji " Le Amna be thinking it is compliment but She is being told She old now , consider the word baji at end and how the speaker changed the wording from tum to aap to hammer her point and Make herself younger and Amna older.

Another Example A High class Male corpo telling his PEER on same level " YAAR tum tu pehley se buhut improve ho gye ho, Congratulations on winning the presentation , Keep on working harder " He is basically telling you were not good previously and now somehow you have won this competition you still need improvement , Basically he is trying to act superior.

8. Always keep on smiling , learn some jokes , quotes and comebacks for every situation , Never crack joke at anyones expense , They might laugh with the group but one day they will Exact their revenge , people fragile yo.

9. Cognitive Dissonance : Stop Criticizing someone From playing politics to get ahead , Do whatever is necessary to Advance forward , You see someone playing Office politics to get ahead and improve their salary , people and peers will judge , like how he is rolling like a carpet infront of boss , he has no dignity , If you judge someone for this then when time will come for you to play politics you wont be able to do that bcuz of cognitive dissonance as you have judged this behaviour is beneath you , therefore you will get stuck with low salary .

Same case Happens with so Called Anti Rich critics , Yaar haram ka pesa hee , Humen pesey se kiya lagey , Pesa tu ani jani cheez he , Everyone is Corrupt, that Doctor is incompentent , Stay away from such people and Such behaviour as this type of person is too shy and incompetent to jump at the opportunity to advance in life . He thinks being rich is crime and he likes to live in his Mediocre life , they fail to take risk , they become risk averse and eventually stop Playing the game of Social heirarchy

1. Always Speak English With Accent , I cant stress this Enough , or Speak Burger urdu , Especially If you are going to university or in any Government building . Trust Me Speaking English will Open Many doors for you and Government official will respect you . English Privilege is a thing

2. Always Remember this Never Ever Badmouth yourself or your Family Even in the company of Friends and Colleagues , It will be used against you , For Example , "Never say ke mera baap buhut kanjoos he yaar , mujhe pesey nhi deta" , Now you will be labelled as Kanjoos forever . You Have just tarnished your Image .

3. Never say "Yaar halat buhut kharab heen" , "AAJ kull Doctors buhut ghareeb heen" . People Don't want to Hear rants , Sell What people Want to hear , Nobody Is looking for a miser , Nobody wants to Befriend a miserable poor and self hating fellow .

4. Remember this People are always Judging Even Your friends , especially yur friends , Always dress Good in the company of men , Groom yourself , Your nails , Wear Deodorant roll on and good perfume .

5. If you have groomed yourself properly then next step is to groom your thoughts , Always do virtue signaling this is how in 21st century people differentiate a Jahil From Suljhe huwe gharane ka Larka , For example write down following sentences for yourself Even you Don't know what that means . "We need to Stop animal Abuse , Stop killing Dogs" even if you have Been bit by dog on the way , It will show you are humane . "We need to end poverty , We should help the poor and Tip generously to FOOD panda riders" It will show you are humble dude and caring .

6. Promote Women rights and Independence in company of females and Abstain from Discussing women in company of MEN , Never reveal your true beliefs , no Matter what they are , Enforce whatever you feel good in your home but Infront of others , BE cool and promote Equal rights for women , It will show that you come from privileged society , of course rich people will never understand that A lone women walking Alone in Low urban centers is never Safe , They Live In DHA and gated societies they will not understand the True brutal reality of Middle class women .

7. Once you roam with Rich People remember this for them everything is A game of Status , Even their compliments are Back handed Compliments , they will never outright Tell you what they think honestly about you . Ladies from HIGH class do it a lot , even my mom and her friends do it a lot and they are typical high class ladies . REAL Example "Tum per yeh dress tu buhut acha lugg rha hee , ISS umer me bhi tum itni khobsorat lug rhi ho , Aap ne apney aap ko Chaar bchon ke bawajood bhi itna maintain kiya huwa he Amna Baji" Le Amna be thinking it is compliment but She is being told She old now , consider the word baji at end and how the speaker changed the wording from tum to aap to hammer her point and Make herself younger and Amna older . Another Example A High class Male corpo telling his PEER on same level "YAAR tum tu pehley se buhut improve ho gye ho , Congratulations on winning the presentation , Keep on working harder" He is basically telling you were not good previously and now somehow you have won this competition you still need improvement , Basically he is trying to act superior .

8. Always keep on smiling , learn some jokes , quotes and comebacks for every situation , Never crack joke at anyones expense , They might laugh with the group but one day they will Exact their revenge , people fragile yo .

9. Cognitive Dissonance : Stop Criticizing someone From playing politics to get ahead , Do whatever is necessary to Advance forward , You see someone playing Office politics to get ahead and improve their salary , people and peers will judge , like how he is rolling like a carpet infront of boss , he has no dignity , If you judge someone for this then when time will come for you to play politics you wont be able to do that bcuz of cognitive dissonance as you have judged this behaviour is beneath you , therefore you will get stuck with low salary . Same case Happens with so Called Anti Rich critics , Yaar haram ka pesa hee , Humen pesey se kiya lagey , Pesa tu ani jani cheez he , Everyone is Corrupt , that Doctor is incompentent , Stay away from such people and Such behaviour as this type of person is too shy and incompetent to jump at the opportunity to advance in life . He thinks being rich is crime and he likes to live in his Mediocre life , they fail to take risk , they become risk averse and eventually stop Playing the game of Social heirarchy