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Trust is something which is dependent on the person on whom the trust is placed.

For example in this dynamic world u can’t trust yourself even after u being with urself since birth .

There are various kinds of trust .

Mutual trust is what often people refer to when they say trust .

But there are various other kinds of trust also for example ;

U meet a person , u both become close , u tell the other person your vulnerabilities and they say theirs and later something bad happens u both stop talking but u don’t break their trust by telling the world about the insecurities and vulnerabilities the other person had told u .

Trust is really really a dangerous thing in this world . U trust a person u talk to them , u start sharing ur problems and in no time u are close and that person whom u trust knows everything about u now , and with trust comes little expectations ie when u trust a person u expect that they won’t break ur trust and they won’t use what you’ve told them against u , but is there any assurity ?? People kill the person they loved saying if I don’t get her no one should , people tell about the person they love and share their private messages or even photos when they are questioned as to how much they love that other person . People to make jealous or just to make sure that they look better in front of others will put u down or use u or destroy u and that’s what this world has witnessed till now ... so this doesn’t mean u can’t trust anybody . It simply means that if u think u will be able to live with all such things happening and still u expect them not to happen then that’s trust ...

my father once said ,,, trusting a person is like handing them a loaded gun pointed towards ur head and expecting them to never shoot .

Yeah that’s trust .

Like the above there are many kinds of trust that’s can be listed .

But Base line will always be “how will u know what trust is until someone breaks ur trust.”

Trust me u will grow and learn when someone breaks ur trust .

Trust is something which is dependent on the person on whom the trust is placed.

For example in this dynamic world u can’t trust yourself even after u being with urself since birth .

There are various kinds of trust .

Mutual trust is what often people refer to when they say trust .

But there are various other kinds of trust also for example ;

U meet a person , u both become close , u tell the other person your vulnerabilities and they say theirs and later something bad happens u both stop talking but u don’t break their trust by telling the world about the insecurities and vulnerabilities the other person had told u .

Trust is really really a dangerous thing in this world . U trust a person u talk to them , u start sharing ur problems and in no time u are close and that person whom u trust knows everything about u now , and with trust comes little expectations ie when u trust a person u expect that they won’t break ur trust and they won’t use what you’ve told them against u , but is there any assurity ?? People kill the person they loved saying if I don’t get her no one should , people tell about the person they love and share their private messages or even photos when they are questioned as to how much they love that other person . People to make jealous or just to make sure that they look better in front of others will put u down or use u or destroy u and that’s what this world has witnessed till now ... so this doesn’t mean u can’t trust anybody . It simply means that if u think u will be able to live with all such things happening and still u expect them not to happen then that’s trust ...

my father once said ,,, trusting a person is like handing them a loaded gun pointed towards ur head and expecting them to never shoot .

Yeah that’s trust .

Like the above there are many kinds of trust that’s can be listed .

But Base line will always be “how will u know what trust is until someone breaks ur trust.”

Trust me u will grow and learn when someone breaks ur trust .

There are only two words that has been my secret of keeping realest friends .

Trust and loyalty .

Even if u don't trust urself , trust Ur friends for they know u better than u know urself sometimes .

And even if u aren't true to urself and loyal to Ur decisions , be insanely loyal to Ur freinds .

One of my freind once said . Keep only those people who can come within 10 mins if something happens to u and trust me after that I divided all my friends onto two categories .

Friends I wanna talk to and maintain my freindship with . They are the inner most circle of my life and there is no filter between us .

Second are friends that talk to me when they need something . I keep them casual , without letting anything disturb the flow .

Never give advice when u are poor because even if u are wisest people won't take it , but give advice whennu are rich cause every advice u give makes them think that only because of these advices have u made so much money and they should follow the advice too of they want to become rich , it relates for many other things too , like no one asks the secret to live life if they see that Thier life is fucked , u don't take secrets to succed from a person who has failed and so on . However the only advice I give now is . Whatever u think is right , it might not be right by me but that doesn't mean u aren't right , so everything is fine .