Ranting time (Long story but trying my best to make it short)
Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua... Man damn the society yaar, I'm tired of this. Let me introduce to my khandan(Mom's side b/c we don't have any connection with our Dad's side) then I'll tell the main story. My khandan is very rich (every one of our khandan owns a Gold shop), you can understand their reputation in the so called society. The whole khandan has backdated people, I mean everone is backdated here, one of my masi has 4 daughters and atlast they have a son at the age of 35-40 ig. They always keep an eye on their daughters, they don't let them go to the outside, jyada dur tak padhne nahi dete, wagera wagera (Kyunki samaj mein izzat na chali jaye). Our family is little bit open minded, me and my sisters are always out of the hometown to persue our study, and it's all b/c of my parents. Last year my mom told my masi to let their 2nd daughter(1st one is already married) persue her PG and told her 'ki Apne beti pe bharosa hai na toh karne de". My didi started teaching for part time in a college, life was going very chill. Today my Didi ran away with a boy. The story started few days ago when she told her mother that she loves him want to marry him, my masi and mosa started crying out loud that ye tune kya kar diya, cast dekha hai niche cast ki hai woh log, tere gharwalo ki izzat ki parwa nahi blah blah, then took away everything from her including Phone and all the identity proof and locked her in the house. Waise bhi didi ki rishte ki baat chal rahi thi toh unke gharwalo ne kal ek ladke ke ghar jake shaadi fix karne ki baat ho rahi thi( Ussko samjhaya geya tha ki aise nahi hota blah blah, so woh eventually shadi ke liye ready hai yeh bola gharwalon ko) aur aaj woh bhag gayi apne bf ke saath. The problem is I told you earlier kitni reputation hai unka, toh hua kya tha do teen saal pehle mere mosa ke bhai ka ladki aise hi ek nichi cast ke ladke ke saath bhag gayi thi, toh sabne you know kitna majak udaya, badnami hua...toh wahi chiz abhi repeat ho raha unke saath.
Idk if I'm wrong or right but Didi ko aisa karna nahi chahiye tha, when she knows it clearly that how outdated her family is. Ik pyaar andha hota hai par jab tumko pata hai tumhare ghar wale kaise hain toh tumko apne limit mein rehna chahiye tha. Because of her, her sisters and my family is suffering rn. Usske gharwalo ne usski sari beheno ka sab kuch band karwa diya padhai likhai everything, ghar se bahar koi zindagi hi nahi hai, even phone tak hata liya, just think of that.
Actual problem is meri mummy ki halat kharab hai, I'm not saying woh bohut acchi hai woh bhi koi dudh ka dhula nahi hai (sorry to say that but as her daugher it is what it is). Aab mere mummy ko pure khandan se phone aa raha hai ki dekh le teri betiyan bhi bahar hai shaukh hai padhane ka, aur padha wagera wagera. And rn I'm going to persue my Mtech from an IIT, aur mere upar bohut pressure de rahe ki tu bhi aise hi karegi blah blah, galti meri hai jo abhi mein ghar par hoon, toh na sun ke jayungi kahan. Mere pure khandan ka motto suno hamesha jati pehle, khusiyan woh kya hota hai. Aaj tak jitne ladkiya ki shaadi karwayi hai hamare khandan mein ussme se ek ko bhi khusiyan nahi mili hai, just surviving, kya farq padhta hai rich toh hai na bas.
Just fucking tired of this shit, yaar aurat hoke tumlog kaise ek aurat ki zindagi kharab kar sakte ho yaar, meri mummy ne kuch ladkiyan ki zindagi barbad kar di hai for the sake of marriage. And honestly yeh bolne mein mujhe kuch sharam nahi hai my parents are also the shittiest people.
I know it's too long but rn I don't have anyone to share this so using this platform to vent out. Now my social life is going to be fucked up soon.