u/Extension-Regret-849

In a relationship with a guy for almost 3 years now. He is very non chalant. He does love me but doesn't call much, doesn't care if I call or not, no planning dates, no surprises as such, doesnt seem interested to know where I went, what I experienced etc. talking to him literally seems like talking to a wall. I have put in a lot of efforts in our relationship and also he really loves me so I cant directly breakup as he is a very sensitive person. I don't know what to do. I feel lonely even when I am with him or when I talk to him. What to do?

I am a female and have 3.5 years work experience in top Steel company in an operations and maintenance role.

My profile is 9/9/8. Have calls from both FMS and IIM A. I target companies which gives genman roles like TAS, Mahindra etc with good work life balance in future. I am ready to struggle in the first few years but looking for stability in the long run. Where should I go? FMS ROI is very attractive but i have heard that it's a very marketing focused college and since marketing prefers low work ex candidates, i guess my 3.5 years will be a barrier. Also the academic pressure at IIM A is very high.. I don't perform well under pressure. I am very confused. Can someone pls pls help out?? 🙏