u/Extension-Road-1708

so this is kinda of AITA kind of post

my uni ended about a year back and there 8 ppl in this so called friend grp (it was a "so called grp" since everyone wasn't frinds with each other equally for eg if A, B and C are hanging out tgt its bcs A and friends with B and B is friends with C and A and C dont hangout khud se bcs they arent friends idk how to explain this better sorryyy)

(Also like 2 ppl moved out toh ab story main 6 aur log hain)

so fast forward to this one friend's birthday in the grp lets call him James

James and i were really good friends kinda situation so i was excited and all chirpy in the whatsapp grp planning how to celebrate his birthday wagera

now here comes 2 girls lets call them "Suzy" and "Lucy"
i was good friends with suzy but never on good terms with lucy (esp after she tried dropping hints to my fiance)
Suzy and Lucy were bff kinda thingy

Now sab se phele like a week before the plan itself i msged suzy if was available for the weekend to celebrate james birthday she said yes then i made the whatsapp and was fighting for my life to plan it out bcs now everyone has jobs and commitments toh plan bana mushkil and finding a time and place that works for everyone

then mid week suzy and lucy started ghosting everyone on the grp, i was okiee let them be bcs plan sunday ka ban gaya tha

THE DAY BEFORE THE PLAN (on saturday) I get snap from suzy
i see suzy and lucy celebrating james birthday with james other friend grp
i was like huh??

i msged james and called him out like baaki 3 (Me and 2 other friends who are better friends with suzy and lucy like these guys and i talk only we meet bcs of this grp )log bachay woh bhi same din celebrate karletay
James cleared out he didnt know about suzy and lucy coming
turns out suzy and lucy reached out to other friend grp midweek and made a plan with them bcs sunday unkay liye mushkil hota and stuff

then we get a text from suzy at 11pm on the grp with bahanay kay lucy kay ghar sunday dawat hai aur suzy busy hai toh woh log saturday chalay gaye and do din ijazat nahi milti toh sunday nahi asaktay then she had the audacity to say HUM NAY PHELE NAHI BATAYA THA KAY PLAN CANCEL NA HOJAYE TUM LOGON KA

BHAI MERI HATT GAYI

khair we 4 ppl went to the plan anyways bcs everyone had bought gifts already wagera

there during lunch i said i didnt like this harkat of suzy and lucy it was a wrong thing to do and it put me off and everyone agreed

toh wahan aik banda jakay suzy lucy ko bol deta kay i was talking shit about them (i didnt i just mention they shouldn't have done this harkat which i have said to them on msg aswell)

now i am removed from all their insta accounts wagera

idec bcs i was never the one to cater to a fake friendship and i always knew ppl always drew apart but AITA?

okiee so i had this private acc (i used it as a digital diary posting all the thingies with my bf i don't like making it public) which was linked to my main profile and whenever i used to login into my main acc i would get access to the private id

so when instagram went down my stupid ass deleted the app and reinstalled it so when i logged back into insta i couldn't access the private id even though i got into my main profile

the problem is the emails are diff for both ids and i don't even have the access to the old email i used to make the private acc

the number is the same but it says they can't send a sms to this number right now

instagram is asking me to check other devices for the code - THERE IS NO OTHER DEVICE

i have submitted my video twice (it failed the first time)

I NEED TO GET MY ACCOUNT BACK I AM IN TEARS