Do you wipe every wet diaper or only poop?
My wife was on a work trip yesterday so I had our 9 month old solo all day. Overall it went fine, but he’s in that phase where diaper changes are basically a wrestling match with a very motivated opponent, so I was trying to keep things moving as fast as possible.
When my wife called that night, I mentioned I hadn’t been using wipes every time for wet diapers. I still changed him right away every single time and put a clean dry diaper on immediately, but if it was just pee and his skin looked totally normal, I skipped the wipe. Poop is obviously a different story. Wipes every time, no question. She wasn’t happy hearing that, and we’ve kinda been going back and forth on it for a couple weeks now.
My reasoning is that he has pretty sensitive skin and even gentle wipes make him a little red sometimes. Plus he absolutely hates diaper changes lately, so adding wiping to the whole thing makes him even more upset. Her reasoning is that hygiene matters and urine can cause rashes if you’re not cleaning properly, which I get too. I don’t think either of us is trying to be careless. We’re both just trying to do right by him and ended up in different places on this one.
I’m not looking for anyone to pick sides or roast either of us. I’m mostly curious what other parents actually do in real life. For wet diapers only, do you wipe every single time? Only if the skin looks wet or irritated? Did your pediatrician ever say anything specific about it? His next checkup is coming up and I’m gonna ask then, but I figured I’d see what other parents have experienced in the meantime.