u/Extensionol

Do you wipe every wet diaper or only poop?

My wife was on a work trip yesterday so I had our 9 month old solo all day. Overall it went fine, but he’s in that phase where diaper changes are basically a wrestling match with a very motivated opponent, so I was trying to keep things moving as fast as possible.

When my wife called that night, I mentioned I hadn’t been using wipes every time for wet diapers. I still changed him right away every single time and put a clean dry diaper on immediately, but if it was just pee and his skin looked totally normal, I skipped the wipe. Poop is obviously a different story. Wipes every time, no question. She wasn’t happy hearing that, and we’ve kinda been going back and forth on it for a couple weeks now.

My reasoning is that he has pretty sensitive skin and even gentle wipes make him a little red sometimes. Plus he absolutely hates diaper changes lately, so adding wiping to the whole thing makes him even more upset. Her reasoning is that hygiene matters and urine can cause rashes if you’re not cleaning properly, which I get too. I don’t think either of us is trying to be careless. We’re both just trying to do right by him and ended up in different places on this one.

I’m not looking for anyone to pick sides or roast either of us. I’m mostly curious what other parents actually do in real life. For wet diapers only, do you wipe every single time? Only if the skin looks wet or irritated? Did your pediatrician ever say anything specific about it? His next checkup is coming up and I’m gonna ask then, but I figured I’d see what other parents have experienced in the meantime.

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u/Extensionol — 7 hours ago

our automotive supplier literally stopped responding in the middle of production and management still asked why procurement "didn't see it coming"

I work in procurement for an automotive manufacturing company, mostly handling component suppliers and production materials, and honestly the past few months have made me question whether "stable supply" actually exists anymore. We've had suppliers increase pricing after samples and validation were already approved. Another supplier spent weeks during onboarding talking about how reliable their lead times were, then immediately started delaying shipments once production volumes increased. And in automotive manufacturing, one delayed component doesn't just create inconvenience. It can throw off downstream schedules across multiple teams. Then we had another supplier issue where the material technically passed specifications, but actual batch consistency during production was terrible. Same supplier

same material code. Completely different appearance and processing behavior depending on the batch. Quality was frustrated. Production was frustrated. And procurement somehow became the department expected to explain everything to everyone. But the worst situation recently involved a supplier we'd already worked with for quite a long time. Active automotive project. Aroduction schedules already locked internally. And suddenly the supplier started slowly disappearing. Slower replies every day while continuing to say things like "everything is moving forward" and "shipment should be ready soon". Which honestly feels worse than simply admitting there's a problem. Because internally everyone keeps asking procurement for updates while procurement is also waiting for answers.

Meanwhile management keeps asking: "why wasn't this risk identified earlier?!" As if suppliers openly announce when they're about to become unreliable. Honestly procurement in automotive manufacturing sometimes feels less like purchasing and more like full-time crisis management. The frustrating part is that these suppliers originally looked completely fine on paper. Competitive pricing. Acceptable samples. Good communication during onboarding. Everything looks professional until actual production pressure starts. Then suddenly all the hidden problems appear at once. Recently our team has been spending way more time documenting supplier history, recurring issues, revisions, and communication records because everyone's tired of repeating the same mistakes with different vendors. Honestly half the challenge now is simply organizing supplier information clearly enough so future projects don't walk into the exact same disaster again.

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u/Extensionol — 2 days ago

The side hustle ideas i actually stick with are always tied to things i already enjoy doing

For a long time i thought making extra money meant constantly hunting for "smart business ideas". Something with high margins, fast growth potential, and lots of demand. So i kept trying random trends people online swore were profitable. One month i was looking at phone accessories, another month pet products, then random tiktok gadgets. Every time i'd go deep into supplier searches, compare shipping costs, calculate margins, even think about packaging ideas. And every single time i lost interest halfway through because i honestly didn't care about the products themselves.

Recently i noticed something interesting thoughThe only things i naturally spend hours researching without getting tired are topics i already like. I genuinely enjoy comparing options, reading reviews, watching setup videos, figuring out which versions are actually worth it. At first i thought it was just another way of procrastinating. But then friends started asking me for recommendations

Then family members asked me to help them choose products. Then one coworker literally asked me if i could make them a "starter list" because they didn't want to waste money buying random stuff. Eventually i started testing small things almost by accident. I ordered a few extra products together with my own purchases and sold them locally to friends and coworkers

Nothing huge, but people actually liked that someone had already filtered out the bad options for them. I also realized there's a business side to this that i never paid attention to before

Certain products had surprisingly stable demand

Some suppliers were way more reliable than others. Small differences in packaging or quality completely changed whether people reordered or not. And margins on simple home/lifestyle products were honestly better than i expected if you sourced carefully. I even tried tools like SourceReady once to make supplier research easier.

That's when i realized maybe side hustles don't always start with some genius idea. Sometimes they start because you accidentally become "the person who knows about this stuff". And honestly, building around something you already enjoy feels completely different. Research doesn't feel draining

Learning feels natural.And you already understand what other people in that niche care about because you care about it too. I think that's probably why so many small businesses quietly grow out of hobbies over time. People underestimate how valuable accumulated curiosity can become. Lately instead of chasing random "winning products," i've just been exploring categories i already naturally pay attention to. Weirdly enough, it feels much easier to stay consistent that way.

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u/Extensionol — 7 days ago

What tools are people using for sourcing/supplier management early on?

I'm part of a very early-stage startup and recently started helping with sourcing/supplier stuff. Honestly i didn't realize how messy it gets once you're talking to multiple suppliers at the same time. Right now everything is spread across spreadsheets, emails, screenshots, and notes. Just wondering what other small teams are using early on. Do most people just use spreadsheets, or are there tools that actually help organize supplier/product info better?

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u/Extensionol — 8 days ago

Genuinely curious because I feel like I'm either using way too many or way too few compared to everyone else.

I'm on the Meshy pro plan and I go through maybe 400-500 credits a month. Most of that is text-to-3D with a bunch of retextures mixed in. I regenerate a lot because I'm picky about silhouettes.

Some months I barely touch it. Other months I'm generating 20 things in one sitting for a project and burning through credits fast.

What's your usage like? And do you feel like the credit system is fair for what you get? Not trying to start a pricing debate just curious about actual usage patterns.

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u/Extensionol — 16 days ago