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Is this a good start?

***Uploaded the wrong Pic so reposting!***

I'm adopted and grew up with a white mom, so bear with me.

I just got into my natural hair about 12 years ago now and Ive been with it for awhile. Anyways, I want to loc my hair up but I don't like how stiff the traditional locs look and want to do microlocs.

Is this a good start? I don't personally know anyone and I want to make sure I'm doing it right once they're in.

Any advice or even pointing me to a tutorial for 4C hair is good.

Thank you fam.

u/External-Void-9872 — 3 days ago
▲ 61 r/MOHELA

"We Can't Expedite Your Application"

This is a rant.

For reference, I am 9 months away from being able to apply for PSLF.

I submitted my IDR back on May 10th and it was denied on May 15th. The app was denied four days later and the letter from Mohela said it was denied because I didn't select a payment plan. So I called and told them I downloaded my FSA application and I did select it. The rep said she wasn't sure why they rejected it and submitted it to be reviewed.

Well, 60 says go by and I got the notice that my forbearance is up. I called on July 15th where the rep told me I had applied for a plan I wasn't eligible for and I needed to reapply but that the app wouldn't be done before my payment would shoot up to $948 a month. For reference, my current payment is $64 dollars a month and my income has increased by pennies. I digress. I called back on the 22nd and demanded my application be processed in time because the initial rep wasted my 60 days of forbearance payments that were eligible for PSLF by having them look at an app she should have known was wrong. The manager I spoke with said point blank AND on writing that she would have it expedited and completed in 10 business days. It was not done.

Long story short, I called and demanded to speak with a supervisor and their legal team contact information about suing over breach of contract. If I agreed to a second forbearance, those months wouldn't be eligible for PSLF.

I called and left 8 messages with the management team. Sent 15 requests for legal department contact information for my non-existent attorney. Sent 12 emails through my secure messaging online and spoke with 5 supervisors about how I wouldn't accept anything less than them processing this before my next due date.

Their classic line "We expedited this but we cannot gurnatee it." and I said "I will guarantee my attorney sues each person I spoke with individually who held up my application causing my PLSF to be pushed back.

Bottom line...here is my confirmation that my payment plan was in fact put into place after just two business days of calling and emailing non-stop about Mohela jerking me around during the last year of my PSLF. 😊

Keep calling, keep complaining guys. 🖕🏾 Mohela.

u/External-Void-9872 — 7 days ago

Hocus Pocus Drop

Does anyone know what is actually being dropped in the Hocus Pocus collection on Thursday?

I hate to be this person but I love the sample they sent in the email and I'm wondering if anyone has seen what it's going to come in?

Am I blind? I checked all over.

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u/External-Void-9872 — 16 days ago

Keith's Vocal Stim

I tried to ignore it in S21...and I did let it go...but I can't take it anymore!

If Keith goes "Unts Unts Unts" one more time, I'm going to lose it!

Where did he fucking learn that and why?! It's so stupid to me and this is the dumbest post but I can't take it anymore!

I always feel slightly bad for Keith because I feel like he gets bullied and backstabbed a lot but this just makes me feel like that little chant is why he gets bullied!

Rant over. 😂

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u/External-Void-9872 — 22 days ago
▲ 0 r/RHOA

Which Season to Start RHOA?

Okay, I never watched this show. However, I happened to see two episodes from S16 (Kenya leaks Brits pics after she makes a passing comment about the pistol during the argument at the bank) and I got hooked and now I want to start the series. However,seeing that there are 17 seasons and 20 eps per season, I'm overwhelmed!

Where should/can I start without it being overwhelming?

I personally don't like starting reality shows from the top unless necessary because they tend to be more exaggerated and by the time you're up to date, the characters are gone anyways so it doesn't matter.

Whats a good season to start on with the current cast to get context for the show?

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u/External-Void-9872 — 23 days ago

How to maintain a regular self care/beauty maintenance routine?

Hi ladies!

I just recently decided to take care of myself more. I turned 35 this year and I just need to finally take care of OP. Do things that make me feel better about myself.

Here is my issue, I started so many things I can't remember when to do them and I end up noticing my eyebrows don't look great once I leave for an event already or that my teeth are a little dull because I haven't done my whitening routine.

Does anyone keep a log or have an app of their beauty maintenance tasks? I am an organizer in a lot of ways so I'm wondering if it's just a Google Calendar reminder or is there an app?

Any suggestions welcome!

Also, I'm new to self care so suggestions on how to maximize my self care are welcome! Currently shopping for a red light therapy mask. 😊

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u/External-Void-9872 — 26 days ago