Advice for older possible pansexual and recent enby
Hope this is okay to post here. I'm in my mid 40s and in the last few years have begun to identify as non binary, specifically demigirl. I was assigned female at birth and have been in a relationship with a cisgender male for around 25 years. I've never really thought much about my sexuality, I have only ever been with cis men. But since being enby, first of all it feels weird to say I am straight considering that there's no opposite gender to enby. I also have always been open to finding anyone attractive across the gender spectrum, and also really find non binary people attractive. I have also said on many occasions to my male partner than if I had met him and he had been female, I would still want to be with him because it is personality which is more important to me. He doesn't believe me, but that's a story for another day. I have no intention of leaving my partner so it's likely I will only ever be in a "straight" relationship but I would love to feel like I could find an identity that suits me. I don't feel like straight does. Thanks.