Hey! This sub is pretty dead but I thought my question wouldn’t have a better place but here. I’m currently seeing a female who’s avoidant (and honest about it), i feel like I’m very communicative and patient. At times I felt like I just wasn’t good enough but after educating myself around Reddit and reading points of view I’m starting to understand her thought process (although not ness healthy). I have a couple theories on where the coping mechanism comes from, but it’s not relevant. My question for avoidants- What is something that supports you? Is there something you wished someone would understand about you when you first started to talk? Any pointers in general?
u/Extreme-Ad7313 — 19 days ago