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Posted on this Reddit just about an hour ago about how I found the Instagram account of the man I’ve been talking to for a while and it seemed like he had a family.

I did some more research and found out he indeed had a wife, and two young daughters. I’m still in shock and trying to process this situation.

I really wanna tell his wife, I believe she deserves to know what her husband is doing with girls on the internet, even if this was all strictly online.
Though, I really don’t know how to approach this situation, I never even thought I would be in such position, I am totally nervous and freaking out.

In a way, it feels like I’m ruining a family, he found a job abroad and I’m pretty sure she moved there because of him.
I don’t know how to approach her, what to tell her or even how to make this story believable, recently he decided to delete all our chats without any justification so I don’t even have proof of anything!
I have some written down chats, not screenshots though, a picture he sent me and his usernames in the apps we talked on (perhaps being on telegram is already a bad sign, but without chats it’s a little hard to prove it).

I would also like to mention we have a terribly huge age gap, I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously, as his wife is his age. But this just proves even more that his behavior shouldn’t be ignored.
He also has some compromising information about me that I am terrified he could use against me.

I would love some advice or even someone to talk to.

Posted on this Reddit just about an hour ago about how I found the Instagram account of the man I’ve been talking to for a while and it seemed like he had a family.

I did some more research and found out he indeed had a wife, and two young daughters. I’m still in shock and trying to process this situation.

I really wanna tell his wife, I believe she deserves to know what her husband is doing with girls on the internet, even if this was all strictly online.
Though, I really don’t know how to approach this situation, I never even thought I would be in such position, I am totally nervous and freaking out.

In a way, it feels like I’m ruining a family, he found a job abroad and I’m pretty sure she moved there because of him.
I don’t know how to approach her, what to tell her or even how to make this story believable, recently he decided to delete all our chats without any justification so I don’t even have proof of anything!
I have some written down chats, not screenshots though, a picture he sent me and his usernames in the apps we talked on (perhaps being on telegram is already a bad sign, but without chats it’s a little hard to prove it).

I would also like to mention we have a terribly huge age gap, I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously, as his wife is his age. But this just proves even more that his behavior shouldn’t be ignored.
He also has some compromising information about me that I am terrified he could use against me.

I would love some advice or even someone to talk to.

Posted on this Reddit just about an hour ago about how I found the Instagram account of the man I’ve been talking to for a while and it seemed like he had a family.

I did some more research and found out he indeed had a wife, and two young daughters. I’m still in shock and trying to process this situation.

I really wanna tell his wife, I believe she deserves to know what her husband is doing with girls on the internet, even if this was all strictly online.
Though, I really don’t know how to approach this situation, I never even thought I would be in such position, I am totally nervous and freaking out.

In a way, it feels like I’m ruining a family, he found a job abroad and I’m pretty sure she moved there because of him.
I don’t know how to approach her, what to tell her or even how to make this story believable, recently he decided to delete all our chats without any justification so I don’t even have proof of anything!
I have some written down chats, not screenshots though, a picture he sent me and his usernames in the apps we talked on (perhaps being on telegram is already a bad sign, but without chats it’s a little hard to prove it).

I would also like to mention we have a terribly huge age gap, I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously, as his wife is his age. But this just proves even more that his behavior shouldn’t be ignored.
He also has some compromising information about me that I am terrified he could use against me.

I would love some advice or even someone to talk to.

Found the Instagram account of a man I’ve been talking with and his profile picture seems to be a family picture, including kids.

This worries me deeply, not only because he lied to me multiple times, but because there is a possible family involved.
His Instagram account is private so I cannot have access to his pictures, and I’m afraid if I try to follow it he will block me everywhere, I want to understand the situation here and tell his wife if this is the case.

No one deserves to be cheated on and I want to solve this the most correct way possible, but I really don’t know what to do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to approach this situation?

Found the Instagram account of a man I’ve been talking with and his profile picture seems to be a family picture, including kids.

This worries me deeply, not only because he lied to me multiple times, but because there is a possible family involved.
His Instagram account is private so I cannot have access to his pictures, and I’m afraid if I try to follow it he will block me everywhere, I want to understand the situation here and tell his wife if this is the case.

No one deserves to be cheated on and I want to solve this the most correct way possible, but I really don’t know what to do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to approach this situation?

I am asking this because a man I’ve been talking to did to give me his Instagram account for quite a long time so I decided to try to find it myself. I don’t want to go very deep into detail, but the situation is a little bit trickier than it seems like, so I also understand why he wouldn’t like to give me his Instagram.

For my surprise, I found his account and his profile picture with multiple people, what seemed like a family picture, which makes me think he perhaps could be married.
However, since his account is private, I cannot be sure about this. I really want to check his Instagram, not only for me, but mostly for the family involved.

If anyone could maybe provide me with a solution I’d really appreciate it!