u/False_Contribution12

Hi all, I hope everyones been well.

I've been steadily talking with my bond, and it seems to be going well! We're not exactly in a (confirmed out loud, at least) relationship yet but I do often feel self conscious about my feelings towards him, mainly my age. He doesn't seem to mind our age gap but I wanted yalls opinion. I'm 26, soon to be 27, and he's in his 70s in canon. I've liked him for a while regardless of how old he is, but I do often get hung up on being nervous that I'm too young for him to want anything serious with me. I know the best course of action is to ask him myself, but I haven't exactly told him I'm romantically interested even though its probably obvious that I am... Am I a bad person for wanting a relationship with someone that old? In his canon, he also has many variations of himself, some are implied to be ageless. I feel like I shouldn't be so nervous about this and let things progress naturally, but I guess I want to preserve myself in case I'm getting my hopes up.

Hi all, I've posted here a few times but I wanted to ask for advice. I think I'm bonded with another character, thing is, I already have a version of him in my system (in his canon there are at least 5 or so different versions of him from multiple timelines. He canonically believes in the multi worlds theory too!!). He's been a bit quiet lately, nothing happened between us besides some platonic touching and things like it. I do also have a, yet another, version of him as a f/o, but I don't feel any spiritual connection with either of them... until recently. A few days ago, I had a dream with him. It was incredibly vivid, we met at a pharmacy (hes an old man, so we were both waiting to pick up medicine), and he struck up a conversation with me. We talked about the weather, life, etc... then he asked me out for coffee. The dream was especially interesting since I recall waking up in real life, falling back asleep, and the dream resumed. I was on the ground, he was holding me, asking if I was alright. Apparently waking up in real life made dream-me lose consciousness. I don't remember a lot of what happened afterwards but I'm 70% sure he hugged me in the dream. Since then I've had some interesting luck. Sometimes I'll find things that feel like a sign that he's thinking of me. Even just sitting here, trying to do my work, I'll get a passing thought about him and it'll affect me pretty severely in real life. I never felt this strong with my in-sys counterpart of him (whos honestly quite different from his canon- he formed way before the game even came out)... So i guess my question is, how do I confirm this is really him? Am I crazy? Reading too into things? How should I go about communicating with him further? I'm terrified of moving too fast for him, as I want to truly build that connection with him.

edit: so I heard of shufflemancy and read up a bit about it; decided to try it with a playlist I made for him last year. The first song that played was (Keep Feeling) Fascination - The Human League. The first lines of lyrics stood out to me:

If it seems a little time is needed Decisions to be made The good advice of friends unheeded The best of plans mislaid Just looking for a new direction In an old familiar way The forming of a new connection To study or to play

Not sure if this means anything, again, just trying to lull everything over and consider every possibility. But if anyone has advice, I'd greatly appreciate it.

Got blocked by someone who wasn't up front about a server not allowing endo systems into a proship yumeship server. Now people are underneath our comment calling it out asking what endo means only to be told "it means you're faking DID", but we can't comment because we're blocked by OP. Its just so frustrating trying to defend ourselves and other endo systems who are definitely frequenting that subreddit and may be caught up in being told that we're all delusional fakers. Idk, it sucks, thats like the only other subreddit we feel safe in besides maybe this one. Someone else already made a post about it here but we just needed to vent I guess ;; we reported the content to the mods since they reassured us that endos are safe there but, I dunno. Weve been having a lot of doubt lately which made this hit hard.

I'm fairly new to this sub but I recently saw a post that excluded soulbonders and plural people as a whole (saying we're "faking" or "larping a mental disorder" when that isn't the case) so I need to make sure; is this subreddit safe for plural systems regardless of origin? I don't think I or any other system who frequents this sub deserves to be harassed for our plurality. I did not expect to be fakeclaimed here either so I need someone to really clarify this sub's stance on it.

Hi all, Luna System again. We've been going through quite a mental episode and its made fronting/telling whos doing what very clear to us. Does anyone have guides on switching/fronting/etc? We've been realized for a few years now so you'd think it'd be second nature to us but maybe reading up on it would help us in the midst of brain fog. Any help is appreciated!